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ive been talking to this girl for about 2 months now and we are pretty much dating without any titles. Recently she had a few date parties and invited other guys. I stopped talking to her and she told me she didnt think i wanted a relationship because I talk to other girls and hadnt acted too interested, and thats why she invited these other guys because she didnt want to scare me away. But now in response to her doing that, which i know was a shit test, i acted beta and jealous. At this point I made too many comments about the other guys, teasing her but i think i crossed the line into insecurity.
I think shes getting bored and want to regain the upper hand.
Advice?
Jealousy is a strong sign of neediness!
The reason why girls hate guys that are needy is because girls are attracted to MEN. Being needy is a characteristic of a child not a man. A Guy who acts like a child (needy) “is asking" a girl to treat you like a mother and girls hate that. Women want a man that can lead them into wonderful experiences. Women want a man that can make them feel beautiful, sexy, fun, safe, excitement, desire, attraction, all at the same time, regardless of age, income, or looks. A woman has to surrender to you in order for these things to happen. How do you expect her to do this if you are the one acting needy?
Blow off this whole event like it never took place, why should you care, you have plenty of other options!
Meet other women – A great way to not be needy is just to have other women and other options in your life. Unless you are already in a relationship, you can date several women at a time. You have not committed as you say.
React to her moves – Neediness is a relative thing. If a woman treats you well, you can say that too. But if she doesn't answer your calls, or mistreats you, tries to make you jealous so you do the same. Don’t show that you want her more than she wants you.
CHAT