Alright, so ive been talking to this girl via facebook for a while now and i didn't wnna ask her on a date on facebook cause i thought thats just stupid and not enough attraction today. so today i went up to her DHV'd myself and said "your having lunch with me thursday" is that good or bad?

This girl also is a christian HB 9 who has never kissed a guy because of her religion or whatever. should i even ATTEMPT to go for the kiss close or should i slow it down because of who she is?

Dude, you are overthinking it, you're worried about kissing this girl when you haven't even gone on a date with her yet. All a kiss does is act as a way to show your interest in her, which there are many ways to do.

Also, don't feel like you have to kiss the girl on the first date, some girls simply won't kiss on the first date, you can always try but don't be discouraged if it doesn't work.

Honestly though the most important thing now is actually setting up a date with her, the whole kissing thing wont even matter if you don't get to see her. Just don't overthink it, that's just gonna lead to you being nervous about your false expectations, which just sets yourself up for failure. Focus on what's in front of you.

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true bra, thanks

Don't go for the kiss. Let the attraction build up first.

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