Hey fellas,

I'm curious about what the take is on a woman who actually KNOWS she's attracted to alpha qualities. I've never met one like her before.

She knows and states openly that she is attracted to certain qualities, and she calls those said qualities alpha characteristics. She says things like this all the time, wants her man to be a leader, etc. I'm not sure if she's just well aware of PUA, gaming, etc, or if she's just dug a lot into what she wants and hence understands what it is she is attracted to more than most women.

In general, would you consider this a good thing? Or a bad thing? I posted this in the relationship forum because I'm in a relationship with her, and am a little unsure of whether this is a quality to embrace, or a red flag that she is aware of the game and is just using her knowledge to her own benefit. Sometimes feels like it could go both ways in this regard.

So in short, how would you treat a chick who clearly is aware at a minimum that she likes a man who is alpha. All my past relationships the women have not been conscious of this concept.

we all know they never end up with the guy they fancy, most of the times its actually the opposite.

nevertheless, tell her to elaborate, like which qualities is she attracted to, this way you will have a heads up.

and remember, the alpha male is waaaay high on the pedestal, not her so...
remember that YOU are the PRIZE not her

you can also disqualify her stating that you are also into alpha females

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Here is the thing, she is an alpha female. She knows it, believes it, and it is enormously attractive to me. She has far more self confidence than any other woman I've ever met.

She has elaborated to me many times on the qualities she likes, what attracts her to me, etc. For the most part, she is just an open book it seems like and is just very emotionally mature in that she knows what she likes and isn't afraid to say so. This is refreshing most of the time. But there are some exceptions.

Those exceptions usually occur when little moments come up where we are in discussions and she says I am just looking for an ego stroke. She says this because in her mind, I am all of the things alpha wise she is attracted to, and I know this, so there is little point to stating this over, or elaborating more than she has. Times like this make me wonder if she's just testing me on a continual basis. On top of that, if my feelings are correct, I'm not sure I dislike this, because it keeps me on my toes and fends of complacency in the relationship.

Just looking for other's take if they have experienced similar.

My girlfriend is like that. She likes being submissive and wants a guy who's very dominant. She's also very intelligent. We talk about pick-up stuff frequently.. she even reads my forum posts when she's bored. It's not a big deal. I would not consider it a red flag.. your girlfriend is probably a bit more logical / socially aware of what she wants. I consider that a good thing.

-Wolf

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