| Hi everyone, back it at again and just wanted to get a second opinion on my "progress."
So there is this fairly new chick at my workplace, HB8, great body but kinda boppy, nevertheless I gave her my number in case she needed some work related insight and for about two months now we see each other once a week, have a couple of good chats consisting of teasing and casual conversation. She first texted me with a work related question and since then we've exchanged texts a few times keeping it short yet interesting and in depth (talked about astrology and other fun things).
Although I am slightly interested it is not a big deal if we hook up or not, but it would be lovely as she has a rocking body! I know co-workers are kind of a toss up but shes really one of the better options as of lately. I would like to escalate and though I'd prefer to not completely f* things up as I could benefit from her in exchanging shifts etc, i really dont care too much for that as I am getting ready to move on to another job in the next few months.
So i've texted her a pair of times since the first text exchange, I ended the conv in the first two (agreeing we'll talk later/see each other soon) and she ended the third exchange with no response, so I considered her dropped.
Fast forward to this past Monday near the end of my shift I attempted to escalate with a touch on her shoulder which ended rather awkwardly (kinda like I pulled down on shirt neck line a little, revealing her shoulder and she retaliated with a funny face and at this point I figured I came off as a creepy and just blew off any future chances and left.
Couple hours later at home I get a text:
Her: You're so peculiarr!
Me: hah sure, what makes you say that? I've gotten weird before but peculiar just seems a little nicer, i'm just unique!
Her: haha cause i cant figure u out! i have to investigate more and i guess im silly in a bad way (told her she was silly)
me: well don't you think a little mystery makes things more exciting? I never meant it like that, prep! (i told her she is preppy before)
her: haha i guess, i still wanna know why you call me preppy!?
me: yeah we've yet to go over that eh? guess we forgot.
her: yeah i still wanna know, tell me!
*continues to tease/explain comment on her style and she insists i dress preppy too*
*both agree that we shouldn't judge by work attire*
I then proceed to neg her as to how I've seen her in her care getting dolled up before work and she starts being silly and didn't know I could see her and I ended the conversation by saying she should impress me with a particular outfit, no reply.
See her at work few days later and ask her if she wants to play my chance game and she agrees but nothing really came of it and I texted her later on telling her she was scared and how its part of her horoscopical traits to oppose sudden change
her: haha see its not my fault etc etc, what else does it say?
me: not sure I haven't read it today, guess i'll have to read your palm next time
her: I know how to read palms too, I can tell you how many kids you'll have, i'm going to have _
me: whoah thats comforting. all from the same or different dads?
her*: same, i wouldn't just let 6 people dip into my cookie jar! haha
me: Cookie jar, I like that, cookies and chocolate chips haven't we had this conversation before?
her: hah were talking about a different type of cookie! just making sure u knew all the different types!
me: yeah i think were on the same page, they come in different shapes and sizes and flavors, i like the majority of them* (did this come off alright?)
*proceed to talk about baking/cooking and i end the convo*
recently she texted me saying
her: omgg im so bored at workk tell me my horoscope
me: *proceeds to make up a random one about how she feels attraction for an unlikely candidate that is likely to expose her pleasure/passive side for good shall she open up*
her: thats a good one, im excited now! *small talk about supervisor confrontation*
me: stop lying to me, i give you my affection and honesty and you just lie to me, what you up to?
her: nooooo i am nothing but sweet to you, i mean i am ___ (what i call her), trying to study but its not working out. you?
me: *small talk* where was that bowling bar you said you wanted to spike my drink at?
her: its in ___ im just going to spike it and make you do odd things like get sandwiched by fat chix.
me: how kinky, i bet you'd like that, what other weird things do you enjoy? i heard that place sucked.
her: hah i like normal things! it depends on the crowd when i went it was coo.
me: yeah thats the same everywhere. i've never gone but maybe i'll have fun if you take me.
her: haha yeah i make many everything fun, i bet ud have fun with me at church!
me: we'll i'll be the judge of that, im going now but we can arrange to have some fun soon, im sure I can think of something you'd like. goodnight
her: haha kk night!
so thats that, sorry if its a long post just a bit unsure. I'm usually a dummy when it comes to detecting even the simplest of signs. If someone could help enlighten me that would be lovely. I just generalized the texts for the most part but that was the juicy part. I'm sure I give off a sort of mysterious vibe, hence why she said that. I do my things and talk to her while doing so and then leave.
Thinking about calling her today and set something up (any suggestions) like even a jog, she said she liked running and i tease her about that, but the weather is kinda icky and I've things to do so I'm leaning towards just waiting till I see her on monday and asking her in person. If you have any questions/suggestions/concerns on where I messed up or where I could improve on they are appreciated.
I know some of you aren't big fans of text game but to me its an essential part! I feel like I do alright with a little time to think of what I say. anything for progress! I can see how a simply misworded text/reply can mess things up though. We did talk about going to the zoo/tavern etc, but any other suggestions? I thought about asking her to go jogging. Thanks in advance
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