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Us being social animals, social environments can be quite brutal if you don't how to play your game right, i find myself occasionally with other men who are alpha, sometimes their presence alone and reputation gets girls warming to them and attractive, i am not sure how to work with this. In the past if there is a girl who is falling for him, and diverting attention towards him from me, il enthusiastically big him up in a jokey away, and say how they both seem like they are made for each other and walk off.
Last night it was hard to do this due to the situation we were all sitting down, drinking, some of the girls were getting their tits out, my male mate got his cock out, it was hard maintaing alpha in this situation, although i felt attention being quickly taken away from me
Is there any other ways of keeping alpha when other alpha males are in the room ?
So lets recap here...
Not only do you try to cock block your friends by using the whole cliche "you two would be great together" lame tactic, but you were also at a party where girls were getting naked and you were worried about trying to maintain some lame "alpha" frame.
Lighten up, stop trying to control everything and stop beating on your chest in an attempt to make the world see your some awesome "alpha."
Self esteem, confidence, and social intelligence, and the ability to have fun are all attractive. Trying to be some alpha male isn't.