Hi guys!

First post here, been browsing around for months though so let me take this opportunity to thank you all for sharing!!!


I have a problem getting down to action, so to speak, but no probs what so ever to get a number or even taking the girls to bed - making out and sexual touching but thats it, no sex.
I don't know if it's because I'm not usually using the conventional venues to find girls - bars, clubs and so on to get a ONS..

This must be fixed! I just bumped into this drop-dead-gorgeous girl at a mates BBQ and we hit it off, I got her number and told her I'd like to take her out. First date was great, we connected and we got through that first kiss which can be pretty awkward, although this one wasn't. It may not be the greatest first kiss but still a good one, it cleared the tension and we proceeded the date and all was great.
She's real GF material so I'm not playing too hard with her, she's six years older than me and in her early 30's so she's unlike any other girl I've met and I really want to make it work, but to do that I can't stumble at the goal-line!

I can provide examples of my recent "almost lucky" experiences if it's needed to figure out what the hell I'm doing wrong...



Cheers and happy hunting
KarlozB

Maybe this post will help:

viewtopic.php?p=721692#721692

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Sounds like your sticking point is LMR. You also need some good foreplay techniques. That basically just means you need to warm the woman up before you start having sex with her.

What you want to do is make the woman wet and drive her crazy so to speak. You get a woman wet by stimulating her breasts and crotch. You can also lick various other erogenous zones like her ears or her neck. I recommend starting up top. Start kissing, then nibbling the ears, then the neck, then grope the breasts. Try to suck the nipples if possible. Then eventually you need to go for the pussy. Start rubbing it through her pants, then try to get the hand in there somehow and finger her. This sounds a bit lude, but it's actually a very straightforward explanation of what you need to do.

If you do all that she should be writhing around and moaning. Once you can tell she is a hot flustered mess, start stripping off the clothes and let nature take its course.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

puaninja, cheers but nothing new. I've always thought I was good at foreplay and reading your comment doesn't make me think less as I'm already doing all that.. For example, two nights ago I went over to this girl I only met earlier during the week. She was on her period so she was reluctant to have sex. I've overcome that hurdle in the past and got anal or bj's from other girls, but this one started to throw fits. We made out, I kissed her neck, light kisses on the collar, I played with her breasts, I pulled her top off and played some more with the stiff nipples, I rubbed her clit and she was liking it. Then I started to move down south to pull her panties off and she went all angry..

This is getting very graphic, lol, but I need to figure this out.

Great link HJ! liked the sutle signs you described, like the sticking out of her tounge. It actually happend during the date I wrote about! Had I known it was a sign like that I'd used it better. I used it in a push-pull mannerish way to let her know, discreetly, what I had on my mind. I looked at her mouth, turned on my bedroom eyes and told her, in my foreplay voice, to "don't do that". Thought it was pretty well played, we made out after that


But it's still not giving me any insight as to why my privilege is being revoked as I'm about to reach the goal line..


Cheers and happy hunting
KarlozB