I've been hooking up with this girl for a while and alrhough it isn't officially a relationship it's getting to that point. I like her and I would be happy to have a relationship but I don't think she's mature enough. She's four years younger, just got into school, and I know she has other guys. I don't care about the other guys because I know that I have her full attention when I want it, but I'm at the point where I think I need to end this, atleast for the time being until she realizes the other guys aren't me. The problem i have is how to go about slowing this down. Do I simply become aloof and let her chase me without hanging out with her, should I meet up with her and tell her? I don't think there's any reason to explain myself since we aren't actually dating but I also know she is falling for me and she would view me as a prick if I just stopped talking to her. Advice is welcomed.

Thing is, a fuck buddy is just that. It's about sex, and only sex. So why get all caught up in feelings and what not. Just don't call or return messages unless it's sexy time!

If you do that long enough they stop anyway.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

yeah the problem is feelings are coming into it, and i cant decide if i want that or not. i think i need to put my dick in someone else.

It's like you've just written this for me, although this girl I'm with isn't with other guys and I'm not with other girls. Before you brand this a relationship...I haven't stated I'm not getting with other girls, I'm just so busy at school (Just started a PhD and she's just started her undergrad) I haven't had much time to get out and see other people.

I like this girl, I really do find her attractive, but I'm not over my ex and I don't want to jump into a relationship, but I see this girl getting more and more emotionally involved, I just feel it's better to end it now and stop her getting hurt down the line.

My plan is to take her for coffee, tell her I'm just not in 'that' place for a relationship and that I see that she's the kind of girl who wants one and I wish I could be that guy, but it's just not right and if she agrees to it then we should just stop everything before it gets serious.

I'll no doubt get branded a dick and an asshole all in one, but I'm trying to be a nice guy.

Be honest, don't play her, respect her feelings. She's a person before being "your" fuckbuddy.

winchester follow up with how that went, im bout to start law school and shes undergrad so this is real similar