so there is this girl that ive known for a pretty long time (4 to 5 years) that i wanna start hooking up with. problem is she has a boyfriend, except she is very flirty and a little bit of a tease. her boyfriend isnt always around though and doesnt go out so she has to rely on others to hang out with normally (plus he is a AFC and couldnt get another hot girl other than this one). she will text me and we will sometimes hang out (i neg her, try to DHV but i think i might suck at it, and thats about it because i dont really no any other methods) but nothing happens despite a healthy bit of flirting. i need a way to get her away from her boyfriend, who she is loyal to but fights with all the time, and get her to come over to me. she is easily a 9 or a 10 in most peoples book and i have gotten my fair share of girls but i want to close on her (first kiss and then see where it goes from there i guess). im looking for all help and as much of it as i can get. (im only familiar with some of the game lingo so explain if your not too lazy...need help with DHV and anything else that sounds like it will work)

hey... i see the position your in.. the only situation where it would be hard to recover is the LETS JUST BE FRIENDS line, you could easily get this if you tried kissing her straight off...



what you need to do is just make your flirting abit more intense, and keep using your DHV, but not too much. also you want to introduce some kino by touching her slightly more than you usually would... this should eventually get her to see you different... since she is a HB you really need to do some negging as well, which i assume she wont get from her bf.

i do touch her a little more then normal (hung out with her tonight, went to dinner then to a friends house) like on the arm or on her side, and she seems to respond well. i also do a bit of negging, she responds a little confused (used your hair is really long etc. one tonight, she took it very seriously and was looking at her hair the whole night and messing with it). i dont think im in the LJBF zone but i dont no if im hook up material in her mind yet (need to change that). if anybody has any ways to DHV i need them to make her see that her boyfriend is a loser, and if anyone has any other methods that i dont no of (and they are definitely out there) please share them.

well to me it sounds like your doing the right thing.. and she is acting confused at your negging because she's not used to it from you... so carry on, but just in small amounts... you want to place the image in her head that you are what she's wanting... and that her bf doesnt know how to treat her... this is hard though.

yea i never expected it to be easy with her, just to make a little progress so that when she has another big fight with her boyfriend that she might take out her anger with him on me...