A little about myself - I'm currently at university, and since I've come back I've been taking advantage of the situation and been able to set up quite a few dates. About 7 so far, that's pretty good for me. One of these in particular lead to a sexual end. That's good too, but I want to know how to go about turning these oppurtunities into sex.


Here's what I did:

- Before setting up the D2 I had (somehow...) managed to turn the text convo sexual. I deleted the convo though, which sucks... all I can say is I could expect sex out of it.

- Set up the D2. I usually go for a coffee date, then after chilling for a bit I say something like, 'Whilst I'm here, I could get some stuff for the flat and drop it off, maybe we could just chill out there for a bit. Is this okay with you?' Just a reason to get them back to mine.

It would depend on logistics though, obv, but still...

I have a few questions about this;

1. Should I try and get sexual over text to set the frame? If so, how would you go about it? (bare in mind, these might be first dates with different girls after having met them in a club)

2. Direct your attention towards the phrase in italics (lol). Should I tell them this before the date or whilst on the date? Just to make sure they can come back to mine without logistics getting in the way.

Any advice is welcome!

Ninja

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Sounds like you already have a good thing going. I only have some small tips for you. Learned this one at a political training meeting:

Asking for permission is seeking for denial. Don't give her an opportunity to say no. Just lead.

Just tell her: "I am going to buy extra coffee. Hold this. Follow me."
She says: "Where are we going?"
"Its a surprise, I need to drop this off. (At my place)"

Just try every one of your ideas.

Should you take it sexual over text?

For me it depends. I personally hate investing time, energy, money and affection into girls who are not down to fuck or who will take advantage of me. So I like to say bad things to them until I feel they really commit to being around me playing the man. I like saying things like:
"I know I shouldn't be saying this to you right now, but . . ." fill in the blank and see what you can get away with. Obviously your goal is to take her home and bone her. So just see how graphic you can be with her. Some you have to be careful with. You be the judge. Remember that 'Girls know what's up'. I've said things like:
"I am going to take advantage of you, I am selfish, I am a bad man, I have a one track mind, you make me think of only one thing" or whatever. Some ask for clarification and I have transitioned to things like "I am gonna put my cock in your mouth" whatever. Last girl said: "Oh I like that, tell me more". It's workin for me.

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Read this

http://www.authenticpua.com/dating-arti ... ate-guide/

Liking that article Steve!

I've actually just come back from a D2, I have a sore throat SPAM so obviously she didn't want to get more physical. Being honest, I think I'm on a 'downer' in terms of my sarging. Ah well, for future reference then

@Reality Show: There's obviously a sexual 'alpha' outlook to what you're saying. That's all well and good, but is there really a need for the ballsy sexual comments like you mentioned?
I'd prefer to sexualise the conversation slowly over time, this is what I did with the girl I got sexual with on the D2 I mentioned. Outright sexual comments like that might scare her off, building it up slowly would make her more comfortable with things.

Would appreciate you thoughts bro

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I am gonna read that article right now too. Looks like exactly what I need.

Yea, as far as the alpha nature of my post. It's what I am experimenting with and it seems to be nearly the only thing that works for me. Gets my foot in the door, escalates and makes me feel good. I used to just be good old nice me and that got me nowhere fast.

I also make my posts extreme to give a different perspective, have fun posting and hopefully make it entertaining to the reader.

Is there a need for the ballsy sexual comments that I mentioned?
I'd say absolutely hell yea totally yes! It's just a matter of how far to push it. But I don't care if it's a born again fundamentalist virgin you are dating, she knows you are a MAN and she wants to be challenged. She knows what you want. You know what you want. Just take it in that direction as much or as little as is needed. But escalate, escalate, escalate. I think in poker there is a rule: "Raise or fold". Something like that.

It sounds like your slow over time approach works very well with the girls you are with so stick with it. You got your own natural game and it's working.

I have wasted a lot of my life building it up slowly and making them comfortable. Maybe I just moved to a more action packed crazy city, but the girls here in San Diego at the events I've been visiting crave hard core manliness. Now that I have tasted a lifestyle filled with sophisticated sluts I don't want to go back. If they don't want me to be a beast, then what do they want from me? Do they want me to be a domesticated man? A woman friend with a penis who is respectful? Fuck that. The other reason why I try to push it with girls is because it is fun and funny. It's like my own little action movie and these super hot sluts love the experience or they run away. I go further with them or just move on to the next one. But I feel practically no pain and don't agonize over them.

Cool exchanging ideas man.

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See what you mean there, as if you're getting sexual quickly for self-amusement. I can see how that would skyrocket attraction; saying sexual comments clearly for amusing yourself allows her to respond in a sexual manner whilst showing that you're not fussed about the outcome, and because of that any objections that come into mind aren't taken seriously.

With the girl in question though, I haven't gone from 0 to 60 immediately. I'm very good at setting up D2 and stuff with comfort, like you say. I built it up over time. A bit like how you try and turn a conversation sexual in order to get a girl thinking about it. You almost do it accidentally in a way. That what's I'm talking about.

I've done it that one time, and we'd somehow come to an agreement that she was gonna come to mine and have sex with me. It seemed to work (only I escalated too hard). I think it could work again as well your ballsy 'all-in' approach, cos you short-circuit the whole 'risk' factor of it and still get sexual with her.

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