Looking good cowboy! I don't see why standing out should mean too much if you open consistently enough. You seem like a confident guy, but rather than making myself stand out with dress I think it would be better to build your own qualities. Like those nights when you catch a load of girls eyes one night, and you're like 'whaaa?' That
On the accessories side of things, have you tried wearing a trilby hat? Dunno whether it would suit you, but I literally found one in the middle of a road and it helped me loads.
Like you can use it in different ways and with different outfits. Say you pop it on a girl's head, you can open her non-verbally or keep her around whilst you nip to the loo. When you're really instate, girls might nick it themselves as a way to open you. One thing though: DEFEND IT WITH YOUR LIFE!
I'm into my peacocking so here's a good example:
Again, not sure it would work for everyone. Luckily I look like Bruno Mars wearing it so yeah...
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