| If you are truly looking for self-improvement, self-recognition, and self-mastery, you must define yourself as a stand alone entity.
Though this forum is officially deemed a PUA forum, you should not be here because you want to validate your worth from the quality/quantity of women you sleep with. You should be here for reasons that transcend simple-minded things like this. Sure, I understand that you probably desire the company of beautiful women, and you think that if you could just nail this one "HB9", everything will change for you. The fact of the matter is, it won't. Most likely, she'll come and go. Or maybe she won't. Either way, she isn't the solution to your problems. Your true goals should be stand alone, and devoid of any connection with a woman. Don't misinterpret me here, I'm not suggesting you won't feel success or happiness or love from these women. I'm suggesting that the picture is far bigger than what simple-minded PU tactics have been covering. And to truly develop yourself to your true potential, one must step back and take time alone, to evaluate his situation, then plan and react accordingly.
I first unofficially entered the world of picking up women at the very young age of 13, I caught on very quick (thanks to some good mentors), adapted to changes through the years. By the end of highschool I probably had "the most notches on my belt" out of the whole school, I had myself convinced I was king. My problems seemed non-existent because I was distracted by g-strings and parties that I was completely unaware that my life was heading down a dangerous and narrow-minded path. The person I was, was defined by my relationship to other. I was the guy who could fuck your girlfriend, the guy who most people hated, the guy who if you knew me, you probably hated. I had no regard for anyones feelings or property. I was a raging drug user, thief, cheater, lier, and general low-life scum. I wasn't a productive or caring member of society, I was smart, but I used my abilities in all the wrong ways. I had successfully defined and made myself into a complete and utter asshole, and I still thought I was king.
Slowly, through the years I learned lesson after lesson that eventually shaped me into who I am today. Sure I'm still an asshole, but I'm actually a good person now. I graduated with a 4.0 from all my schools so far, I have a completely revamped lifestyle that is fun, productive, positive, and legal. I'm happier than ever and better than ever.
What's my point?
I began to realize that to truly become a good person, we must find the answers not from a single source. But from everywhere, once we find those answers we must self-reflect and be alone with our thoughts. You cannot develop yourself adequately until you are truly in touch with your "self", your inner mind. Not your "ego", the outer shell that is concerned with appearances, and such other things. So please. DEFINE YOURSELF SEPARATE OF ANY RELATIONSHIPS WITH OTHER PEOPLE. (this doesn't mean don't care what other people think, etc, it means to be yourself, define yourself on your terms, not how other people see you) On a daily basis I impress people because they assume alot about me. From the outside, people see me as a completely different person than I really am. Strive for this. Surprise people with your unique personality, specially crafted by you. It is yours to make, don't let others take the ability to make yourself from you.
Peace. Love. Prosperity.
Meth.
(please, ask me to elaborate if you are at all confused)
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