I've had several people ask me on the forum, in chat, and through PM what the heck is A3. This is to explain this area of the game, as I understand it from Mystery. After all, A3 Male to Female Attraction is part of his method. As Mystery says, its the newest step in his model.

So you've gone into the Attraction Phase, you've opened the set A1, she hooked. Then you went to A2 (Female to Male Interest), where you demonstrated higher value, befriended the group, and negged your target. You saw around 3 IOIs or indicators of interest. Now it's time for the next step.

The idea behind A3 (Male to Female Interest) is to make her says things to you that will allow you to indicate your interest to her. It's just the exact opposite of A2.

In this stage you need her to DHV so you can indicate your interest. However, you have to make her do this by asking certain questions. Mystery recommends isolating (move) at this point. Do your usual, "Your friend and I like each other, you mind if I borrow her for a second." Then use questions like:

"What do you got going for you more than your looks? Look around the club come on beauty is common, but what's rare is a good outlook, great energy, and a great personality. You got 2 out of 3 so it's a start."

Get her to qualify yourself to you, so that you can show interest to her and what she says. There are 4 steps to this.

1. Bait her with a question to give you information about her. "What qualities do you posess that'd make me what to get to know you more?" Get her to hook and qualify herself.

2. Reel her in. Say stuff like, "No way! I can't believe you...." (IOI)

3. Release. "You're a nurse, I had this girlfriend once that....I can't even talk to you right now."

4. Repeat the process.

This step takes about (10-15 minutes)

Now you move on to comfort. Where you convey the "You've hijacked my brain" mentality. You are just building rapport, and not negging anymore when you reach C1, Comfort Phase.

Hope this helps guys, it's a weaker process in my game and I hope it helps with your game as well.

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Wow this eally helped man!

thank you soooooooo much!!!!

o owe u a drink! lol

thnx again

Well what do you mean "You've hijacked my brain" mentality" can you plz explain this is a weaker part to my game too.

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Trojanman88, this is from a Mystery audio file that I have. Basically, you want to say things to let the girl Demonstrate higher value and tell you good qualities about her. Here is an example of a possible interaction between the two of you.

PUA: "What qualities do you posess that'd make me what to get to know you more?" Then the HB says to you, "Well I'm a teacher." PUA say, "OMG, I can't believe you're a teacher, I had a girlfriend once that....I can't even talk to you right now." She starts to demonstrate higher value with a comment, you show interest in her comment by saying, "OMG, I can't believe you're a teacher." Then you release by giving a false disqualification. "I can't even talk to you right now." Then you let her continue and you do this again.

When Mystery says you want to convey in Comfort Phase, the "you've hijacked my brain mentality." You are trying to get your target to qualify as to why you are attracted to her. Saying things like, "Just a moment ago I thought you were just another pretty face, and after I got to know you I don't want you to get a big head or anything but I feel some attraction to you. You need to explain this to me, did you drip something in my drink or what?" Or even, "It's like my brain has been hijacked, how is it I'm attracted to you?"

In the above you are conveying like its her that has swept you off your feet. Its a neat tactic that helps kill last minute resistence when moving to seduction. She feels like she won, which is an important aspect in any type of sale. Remember, attraction is not a choice and you helped her make that choice. Yes, you are selling her on the idea she attracted you not the other way around.

This is pure Mystery Method. If you are unsure of it I recommend reading the Venusian Arts handbook or "Mystery Method: How to get beautiful women in bed" by Mystery.

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A3 is very important for showing that she's not just interested in you, but that it's a mutual thing. This encourages her to pursue you, because otherwise she'll lose interest.

In comfort, you're trying to show build good rapport and make her fall in love with interacting with you, because you have this ability to just totally sweep her away and she is doing the same to you.

The part about her "hijacking your brain" is huge, because if she doesn't feel like you're as interested in what she has to say and she is in what you have to say, then she's not gonna get swept up in the fun, because it is all one sided. A pickup isn't about you running routines that make a girl feel certain things, it is about building a connection and making her feel like you two have a bond. If she doesn't feel interesting to you, then she'll find someone else that IS insterested in what she has to say.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

These two guys make great points Trojan. Also, add this to it . . . inside her mind:

Damnit. I'm into this guy, and I'm trying to let him know, but is he into me? Am I just wasting my damn time here? I better not be. I wish I could have some sign from him that he's into me as much as I am him . . .

PUA: "You've hijacked my brain. How did you make me so attracted to you?"

What a relief. He really is into me. Now, all that worry can leave my mind. I can relax with him, get to know him, and be a bit more comfortable with him.

What YOU as the PUA sees . . . she's studying you, looking for different signs of your interest level. Searching almost frantically. Looking into your eyes, watching your body language. Suddenly you pop out those words. You see relief sweep over her face, while a smile replaces it because she's got a sudden feeling of warmth, more so than she previously did because she was having fun just being with you. Now she realizes she's getting something out of this too.

If this makes sense, lol.

Wow, great jsmooth, as always! Let me just add that Mystery stresses the brainhijacking as a way to overcome LMR. You convey that she has the upper hand since she is the one who attracted you and thus she cannot be called a slut after you had sex...

Ezo

Sorry... forgot the main thing I was going to say. To create a soulmate moment is awsome! Put that in your C1 and the LMR will be much easier to overcome...

Ezo

Glad it helps guys!

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Thank you guys, I didn't exactly understand this bait-hook-reel-release part of the Mystery Method before.

J, aside from the "omg I can't believe you're a ____, I can't even talk to you right now" line, what others can be used during a second, third, or fourth repetition of the push and pull?

Also, on average, how many cycles of this do you think is the optimum on a sarge?

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I'll use variants of this line like, "You were in band, I had some good friends in band, but ....forget it you're too much of a typical nerd for me! "

Or - "You're from Alabama that's like the deep south right, I'm from the south too and that's cool, but geez I think you're going back to square 1 with me."

I feel doing this 3 of 4 times is plenty enough to show interest and be the "non-needy" type of personality but still showing interest.

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wouldnt she already think ur attracted to her if ur the one who approached in the first place