Hello guys,

I'm Marco, 39. I'm spanish and live in Germany. I thought I'd say hello before posting a few questions in the forums.

CU,
Marco

OK,

thought I'd give a few more details. I'm in an LTR and usually stay quiet, but when I travel for work and spend a 1 or 2 weeks out I don't disdain finding some company.

When the opportunity arises, getting a phone # or a date doesn't seem to be a problem for me (yes, there is always room for improvement). But somehow stuff gets in the way when it comes to sex.

It happened already a couple of times that while making out and touching in a very hot way, then when I invite the girl in the hotel she declines. Once it happened just in front of the hotel entrance, another time in front of her place.

My thoughts about it was that women (I target the ones who are more or less my age) don't want to invest their selves in a guy who's going to fly away tomorrow and come back who knows when, but I might be wrong.

Any advice or link to similar situation in the forum is appreciated, I spent some time searching but didn't find anything.

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Finally, once a friend told me about the book "the game" and I tried on the fly his 2nd hand tips. Must have been 5 years ago or so. I read Neil Strauss' book. For other reasons I studied some NLP plus other psychology schools (TA, Gurdijeff), so I throw everything in when needed

CU,
Marco