hey.
Heres the situation: i work in a poker club and the place hired massage therapist for the players at the tables. Not my thing but theres a new massage girl that started like last week and shes like a hb9 and totally my type. I wonder what kind of approach i should have on her. Most afc way to try and get to know her would be to take a massage during one of my break (well thats what i believe). Went to play there tonight and she was there , everytime she looks at me she smiles and she glances at me alot. Think she ioied me by telling me when i left , sucks i couldnt get the time to give u a massage since ur leaving and bla bla bla im working saturday are you?

So basicly im trying to think of the better way to not get into customer relationship and show higher value then that. any ideas or hints i could use?

Any help is welcome and encouraged.
thanks

_________________
No pain no gain!

If this girl is smiling at you and giving you IOIs be direct don't beat around the bush. Call her out on it be honest. I would tell this girl something like " I see you can't get your eyes off me so instead of us flirting from far lets just do it close, Hi I am so and so etc". If you want to be successful in anything you gona have to learn how to risk and put 100% of yourself out there. Yes, you might get rejected. But you also mind find your future wife.

_________________
"Experience is the teacher of all things"

thats what i thought of doing also . thanks for the advice , ill work that thing out

_________________
No pain no gain!

do you have a game?

if so, same game as always

if you have no game... just talk to her, ''HI'' works fine, followed by a conversation, at the end of that conversation, ''I like you, we should grab a drink some time, do you drink?''

that's about it, if you don't seem totally awkward and she is interested, she will be up for it, if she is not interested, she won't be up for it and will most likely make an excuse for you and try to make it seem like she is into it to save your ego but has a reason for why not (this way she can make a new orbiter buddy at work using her vagina), if she is no interested and truly nice, she will just flat be honest

her meeting up with you for a date, is not a huge investment on her part if there is interest, just be honest about it and don't worry, there are sooo many fucking girls, why put value on approaching one in particular and having a conversation?

if it doesn't end in sex what does it matter? how many times do you meet a girl and end up fucking her vs how many girls you have met in your life? if you suggest the answer is anything better then 90% of the time it doesn't end in sex, then you probably don't meet a whole lot of women very often, just have a chat and ask her out, don't make it out to be a big deal and it won't be

Just find a chance to talk to her briefly and say something like " I saw you looking at me, I'm blah, blah. When are you free? let's go out sometime.."

It may not work for other girls but with your description, she will go for it. You can even ask her number if you want to.