OK I know the girl for a longer while now. When I met her the first time (about two years ago) I know that she was kind of attracted to me but I did not know much about game and I had a girlfriend too.

Long story short: I am single now start gaming and I want her!

THe problem is that I usually see her accidentally on campus. When I talk to her I can see than she is kind of distanced, maybe because I did not try to approache her for such a long time and now she is not interessted anymore which is very understandable!!

I don´t want to give it up but I am afraid that she is not interested? I know that sounds stupid but I need some practical advise...

Thank you very much and sorry for my bad English..

Would you see her on nights out? , would be more acceptable for a approach if she isn't engaging.

The first thing you need to understand is there is no such thing as game. There is only your ability to effectively communicate with women. What many consider to be game is actually our conversational skills.

You must be able to initiate the conversation.

You must be able to sustain a conversation.

You must be able to extract information out of others.

And the thing is you don't have to be super smooth. All you need to do is act normal. There is tremendous power in ordinary. They call in extraordinary.

You need to be leader. You need to tell her what you're after.

The next time you run into this girl tell her that you really hate only seeing her from time to time. Tell her that you use to really like her, but don't know why things never took off, then ask her if she would like to hang out sometime. The worst that can happen is she says no and you don't see her for a long time. At least you didn't puss out.

I used to work with this kat, a skinny black dude. He was relentless when it came to women. I don't think he was even a pua, but maybe more of a natural. Didn't matter who or where it was, if he saw an attractive girl he went for her. They hired a new 18 y/o mexican girl at the cafeteria we eat at, he got her number. When new girls came on board at our office, he immediately started talking with her and going on walks with her outside on their breaks. Probably texting, IM'ing, emailing them all day too. I think some of these girls even had boyfriends, but it didn't seem to matter. He was going to talk to them regardless and run his game, and if they made him just a friend he was cool with that. I have no idea what his number is or how many of these girls he actually fucked, but the point is that he went for it EVERY time and he almost always got further than other people who took some other approach, or no approach at all. Like Don Marijuan was saying, he was a great conversationalist and the girls were always walking with him and laughing and stuff.

Just to have that skill alone would be incredibly powerful. You don't need money, fame, looks, or anything like that. You simply need to be able to talk with women and not be afraid to approach them initially to get that going.

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Thank you very much,

yes Don Marijuan, you are absolutely right. Next time I run in to her, I will let her know that I am interested...I was just thinking that I was waiting too long and now there is no excitement anymore, after all the time I didn´t talk to her as much as I should...?

But I will try anyways. Thanks!!!

I keep you on treck.