One thing I am bummed about though is that she doesn't initiate contact with me barely at all. She's really busy, but if she did really like me, she would want to text/hear me. Her actions tell me she is just checking me out and wants to fuck. I'm just gonna try not to fuck it up, buy myself time and give her a chance to get into me, if we're compatible in her mind.

If the time comes where she is texting me and calling me to get my attention etc, that would be the next level. I figure lifestyle, leadership, comfort and like romantic talking might get me to the next level.

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l have currently an experience with a very busy girl. She is hot and I know there are more men around, and before she did not txt me much. I was feeling that it was me who txt her and would get an answer whenever she wanted. I stopped texting her and when finally she txted I told her this in the middle of the conversation: "I wanted to tell you something. I am not texting anymore to give you some space so you can deal with your stuff, but I am still here" her answer was "it's ok babe " "thank you"
I know it looks very AFC from me, I really like this girl and that was why I wrote that. What I noticed is that she started to be the one who would txt, in the morning to say hi and whenever she can.
Maybe there are better advises about this, but this one worked for me, hope it helps.

DG

I have had a few girls who I though a lot of, even some that I really and truly believed I loved at the initial stages.

The funny thing is that the more I fucked them the less attractive and hot they became in my mind.

I tend to move on rather quickly as there is only room for 1 person on the pedestal.

I did play the jerk that's true. We went on a few cool dates. My intuition was right.

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