hey everyone,

I need your help with the situation I'm in now. I met this chick at this party (really hot, HB 9.5) and I got her number. We started texting and I asked her to get dinner with me and she said that she already had gotten dinner. The thing is that she takes a long time to answer texts (like 2 or three hours) and I'm not sure if she is doing that because she is playing hard to catch or if she is not as interested as I am in her. Since the day I asked her out I've seen her a couple of times around my university campus and whenever I talked to her she kept smiling, complimenting me and giving me this really affectionate hugs, but boyyyyy is she cold at texting. Now I wanted to ask her out a second time but she told me that she was home (and she texted it like she was saying: "THank God, now you can't ask me out coz I'm home and far away from university campus"). I know that if she flakes twice, I should move on but the thing is that she is really warm whenever I meet her (or at least that's what I think, she kinda gives me this IOIs that she likes me) but for example she never texts me first, never invites me to a party with her and I was thinking of texting her and asking her out one more time or just leave the bitch and move on? She's hot and all that but I don't wanna keep playing this game for nothing. I am thinking more of just letting it go and move one, do you guys agree?

been there, sounds like a cock tease or just playing hard to get. I aint a PUA yet, but ive been with a few chicks and my recent LTR lasted 1 yr, Ii had to ask her 3 times before she said yes. but as a rule I will never ask more than twice. If ure in bristol or the somerset area... Ive probably whacked her mate, wouldnt want my leftovers...

hope this helps buddy

Usually it's after 2 or 3 refusal that I move on. Try to think and honestly judge her 2 refusal. Does it seem legit or not? What I do is that if the two seem legit, I give a 3rd and LAST chance for her to meet me. When you think about it, it probably happened to you that you denied a girl right? But honestly would a girl deny a man that she likes 3 times? At some point, you have to realise that, if a girl is interested, she will make some space in her schedule if she really wants to.

Of course, if the two rejections don't seem legit to you, you have to be honest to yourself. There's no need for a third try if it is the case.

I would suggest to you to make a last try. I'd go for something non-threatening like "hey, I'll be at XXXXX bar tonight with some friends, you should join".

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Aww man, you shouldn't played it out better.. Just simply going okay wont do you any good with her.

If she says something like ''no cant'' or anything that means no, just be like. Aight! Your loss , thought you deserved it but guess girls nowadays dont take the life-changing opportunities anymore.