| all there really is, is interest, or no interest, p into v or no p into v
some girls are interested but currently not available, sure, keep in touch, keep things flirty, but don't really try to hard, it's more like checking in to see if they are available yet
compliance is the best indication of where that interest is at with a girl, she's ok with a kiss and it brings a smile to her face or reciprocation, thats a green light, pay attention to her because you have a window to create logistics and get your P inside her V, waste too much time and she clues in that you won't make that happen, the interest to have your P inside of her V will die off on her end cause you don't ''know'' what you are doing, she will go find a guy who is that middle ground of talk with just the right amount of action when she gives the green lights, instead of waiting for a guy to clue in on the signs that she's ok with moving forward, if you can't read her and move forward and it just turns into BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH, you are smashing your own balls and putting yourself into the friend zone, and when you have those logistics, you go all the way, if you don't, you will be placed into the category of ''guy who wants to fuck me'' instead of the category of ''guy who I fuck'', the anxiety hump has been passed already for her in the second category, if she thinks you smell blood in the water and there is no value in that for her when she is dry, you will be put on flake mode
texting and having convos over the phone don't get you closer to p into v,
her being physically closer to you, with logistics for sex to actually occur, that is what gets you closer to p into v, and it is your goal to try to create that situation for yourself
compliance tells you what you need to know, and there are litterally a billions of girls on this planet, look around you, make eye contact with some new ones, if they hold it in return and seek it with you, look hot and bothered about you shooting them the eye, or they smile at you, go meet that girl and try to create a good situation for yourself, let her know why you want to meet her and see what she is like and what you two have in common
and when you do manage to create that good situation, don't worry about risking too much, worry about risking too little, try to have sex with her, don't try to get her number, don't try to impress her, don't try to get a makeout or a kiss, P into V, the previous are just things that can assist you to reach that end, not the end themselves
see how you can get the logistics, logistics are of HIGH relevance and if you can't, you take one of the above as a consolation (her number since physically having sex with her is impossible at that time, from where you are), anything less then P into V should only be your goal, if logistically P into V is impossible, girls also tend to be more compliant and easier to convince face to face when they have to face the real tension of saying no under eye contact and direct communication, rather then over a phone
face to face > phone > text > facebook
''met this girl... known her for a month... I like her... what doo?''
is a terrible start to a thread on ''how do I do this?'' thread,
if there was a magic 8 ball, it would be saying, ''CHANCES ARE NOT GOOD''
if you had the logistics before and couldn't make it happen, chances are you still can't make it happen, if you just never tried that is a different story, in that case you just have to create those logistics again (how do you do that you might ask), well formulate your own idea, think of what she would enjoy doing, that might get her to meet you in person, then from in person, think of what you could do to improve those logistics even further, and how you could make it enjoyable for her to agree to those logistics, keep moving closer and closer to your desired logistics, then P into V
if you want a relationship, steady screening, and socializing more in depth to see more what she is like is more important, but if all you are looking for is P into V, you should be spending more of your time trying to create that situation, and how practical Girl A is from Girl B, to meet that goal, instead of how do I get Girl A who is not practical to that end, to reach that end, GO MEET A GIRL B
all it is, is a chat to make her comfortable, her being in a good mood instead of at your throat, and you trying to create a situation where sex can happen, if it can't happen today, probably won't happen tommorow, get her alone, get her in the mood, make it happen
new girls, new girls, new girls until you meet one who is up for what you want, focus on what you want to make it happen, focus on how you can make it happen, and move forward taking action to that end
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