http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=45393502

I'm getting no great results here, has anybody got a second spare to have a quick scan through see if there's anything major that is handicapping me?

I cant see anything wrong with that! Maybe get some more decent pics.

I have found that pof is very hit and miss....the truth is 90% of people on it don't even read the profiles not at first anyway....its all about the photo!

If your really attractive you'll get loads, if your average you'll get hardly any and if your ugly nobody will message you!

Well, I say either you're going to go for good guy or fun guy...

If you're going for fun guy, then you either have to make a totally goofball profile that women really want to read and makes them want to message you about how hillarious it is. Like Ddawg, or you show yourself doing something crazy like skydiving.


If you're going for good guy, then I guess you just sell your strengths and put some good looking pics up.

But then you can't say you're just looking for sex.

If you're going to say you just want to have sex then you've gotta be funny, no girl wants to take casual sex seriously. Then she'd not be having it.

First thing, you need a new picture. Something with a girl kissing you on the cheek or something is huge social proof. That picture says "needy and desperate". Second, put non-smoker...many girls will DQ you just based on being a smoker. I think the profile is WAYYY too long, 3 lines or less will do, DO NOT use the actual work "sex". Be the bait, don't qualify yourself. Instead of what you have now, use the "About Me" to talk about YOU. Say something like "If I were advertising on craigslist, this is what I would write:

I'm a well hung, romantically gifted stud searching for a sugar momma who will lavish me with expensive gifts in return for giving her all of the amazing things her husband is too self-centered to make enjoyable for her. Car must be provided up front." (Shamelessly stole that from Style).


For the first date, just make up something ridiculous...really, anything.