Ok so last Monday it was my birthday. It was a good birthday. I and my mates did a pyjama pub crawl. Started at 2pm and finished at some club around 3am. I don’t think iv ever been quite so drunk. and you should never under estimate the pulling power of light blue teddy bear pyjamas.

I even F-closed although for the life of me i wish I didn’t. Lets just say she was a bit below par and my mates have been ripping on me ever since. Its a learning curve and from it I have learned to just say "fuck it" and stop giving a damn.

Tomorrow it’s my mate’s birthday and I’m supposed to be going to his house party, only problem is she's his SPAM. (TENSION)

There is no way of avoiding her. My plan is to just pretend nothing ever happened and continue to hit on every other girl there. Opinions?

Don't ignore her man. Tell her that you were drunk, and she was drunk. That shit happens, and you hope to remain friends. Even though she is ugly, she is an automatic pivot. You look less Superficial around the pretty girls when you are with an ugly beast. The pretty girls by nature want to upgrade you if they see the beast enjoying your company and you not being a dick. But hell you could always ignore her and be social-proofed by guys, who will hawk your movements each time you approach an HB, and make the girls around you feel like you are there just to hit on them while they are there for fun. Which would you prefer.

altho i see sence in what you say it isnt even about her looking butters. its about the way she went about it. She literaly chucked me out the house in the morning and all her flat mates over heard it.

I went to the party, i smiled and gave a big "how are you?" I was sincer about the whole thing... However... My mates stated ripping the piss while she was there... I know what your thinking, how awcrawd... but iv seriously stoped giving a damn. the whole thing has just become a big fucking joke. and i laugh mate.

Fact is she acted like a bitch, she told 2 contradictory stories of what happened that night and made herself look like an ass.

One thing iv taken from the whole scenario is stop giving a shit. Seriously, when you have no shame you are given a new freedome in life.

ps. Naa i cant get hawked by guys cos all my mates have done far worse than me. we have a wall of shame

Jacked - she is not a pivot if she is ugly, it's the opposit effect you are demonstrating lower social value if you are with a rough girl!!

To hell with it smoothie
1) she's rough
2) she is manipulative running 2 different stories
3) she's easy and doesn't deserve the upmost respect if she gives out the 1st night (f-close 1st night is always sic - high five)

I wouldn't feel bad about it at all smoothie

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Thanks bro, to be honest one of her SPAM talked to me recently and told me how she’s done this afew times... I’m not sure if it makes me feel any better but it doesn’t make me feel any worse.

Its below me now anyways. I just see it as a big fucking joke and laugh

I think once you learn to laugh it off you show that you are a stronger character anyways.


Smoothie out

Yep.

As you were genuine about it and she was the bitch, you can jump on your high horse and start creasing up. It sounds like (from your posts) she got the vibe or overheard your mates taking the piss out of you for doing her, if so, she must've felt very offended and probably has LSE so naturally put up a bitch shield to protect her ego.

Sometimes I do very stupid things, I start talking to whoever the hell I want and say whatever the hell I want to say. At first my mates thought I was weird and took the piss, but when I started to think of it as a laugh, they join in with it too. Once you can go up to a random person and ask them "where they got their shoelaces because they totally go with their shirt", you tend to take serious situations... well... less seriously.

try to be more nonreactive.

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