works to a point.. if you play the Don Juan too much, I suspect your GF will get fed up. it works wonder in the initial stages, but after a while, I guess the pattern should shift to "I COULD so easily have other options, I am sociable, outgoing, funny, have high social value, ..., but guess what, I do not pursue any of them. As long as all my needs are met by our relationship".

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good thread ... makes my right eye bleed tho

got cheated on 4 times.... first one i felt it coming she was bipolar as fuck. i should have dumped her ass....

second time i dumped a chick , later i decided to tell her i do want to be with her because i actually did like her , i knocked on her door and she opened up - meanwhile some dude was trying to pull up his pants back in the room.. i called her a bitch i lolled and left. i have to say she was extremely good in bed - i have fucked woman double and triple her age and noone fucked as good as her. this one was naieve as fuck and she would easily fuck other guys. i later found out that in like 2 weeks after that she moved to his place lol... she barely knew the dude.

3th time i hooked up with a psychologist.. she turned out to be drug addicted and her ex abused her physically. anyway one day i just didn't hear anything from her anymore - one week later she broke up over text. later i found out she gone back to her ex who abused her but he rejected her and in like a few days she hooked up with another guy.... this is a woman who is a psychologist- she talks to depressed people lol. this one was terrible but motivated me to do serious inner game stuff, pain = growth lol.

o yes... i even apologized to her about 1 year later - i found out i blocked emotions like most people and that was a negative factor in my relationship with her - so i told her i texted her i was sorry.... not because i did anything wrong - i didn't invested 100 % into the relationship which i normally always do.

after this one i became more mature.. better person

4 time i was with some milf who promised me the world - acted like she was my friend like she cared about me....later i learned she lied about almost anything... even her age it was really terrible. i didn't expected a exclusive relationship - i just was shocked how much she lied and manipulated.

i didn't do anything wrong but i apologized to her as well.. i hooked up with her, i constantly felt something was wrong in every interaction with her , it was in my power to leave her alone, but i didn't.. my mistake for hooking up with her.- in the end i burned myself.

she was 48 btw.. but after i found out her real age i still was open to the notion of a relationship... lol....

aside from that...

i have seen so many married woman flirting with me or staring at me.. starting convos with me , touching me, being overly open and personal. some of them are woman who were married 10, 20 or 30 years. financial i never had trouble because i was poor as fuck lol. always traveling around, working out training people and sleeping in gyms. but from other people who divorced i learned to not to share finances with your GF or wife..

there is many more misery with dates and shit but nothing spectecular .. i haven''t touched a woman for 8 months. im glad i can be alone without thinking about distractive shit, im at a point where i don''t care about woman or relationships anymore..just completely calm and in the moment.. i wish that to everyone, it''s just a spiritual journey with alot of personal growth..

when a bitch cheats or dumps you it makes you angry and she seems to have somekind of power - like she is better off than you but this isn''t true. because that pain gives you a treasure map to learn lessons and grow as a person... meanwhile that bitch just hooks up with another sucker who will get cheated on - a vicious cirlce untill she gets sucker punched.

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thanks for sharing the story guys. I'm not currently in a relationship but i had a LDR.
I didn't really got cheated on, i just broke it up because it didn't work. When i saw her with some dude on facebook i asked who that guy was. He was just a friend she said.

2 months later she was in relationship with him, and still is right now as i speak.

So that also taught me that i should never trust a woman on her word, but on her actions.

You guys make the world for other guys better. I like that. This PUA forum is somewhat the best thing i've ever found on the internet. No better information anywhere else to be found on life.

this counts for every woman in you life.. even your mom. i cannot believe how many guys don't understand this.. it's so easy.

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Wow some really interesting posts so far guys! its crazy to hear some of your stories!

One thing I have learned about women is that you cant trust what they say, what happens in your relationship will not stay in your relationship! your gf will air out all your dirty laundry to her friends so be careful! when I am with my boy's I tell them about how amazing my gf is, how good she is in bed ect ect, but women don't take pleasure in that, they take pleasure in gossip and comforting each other. Women talk about things they don't like about you, how good you are in bed, you family, they ask for advice which should be of concern because we all know that there are always a few bitter bitches she hangs out with that want her to be as miserable as they are lol

Women really are a whole other creature! Its nice to have them around but when they turn on you its that can be evil! One minute they can be the most loving thing in your life, and the next they are sleeping with your best friend and telling the world how messed up you are lol

Its a wonder why we want to be in relationships lol I guess its natural to want to secure a high quality mate, its natural to want to fell "safe" and secure, I think most animals seek some kind of security in life, and human relationships are the closest thing to security that we have.

I don't know.. I never trust a woman 100%, they are just so mean. In most cases, the moment when the right feelings are on, they just dont care anymore, so you just have to look for the signs..

I definitely have been. I left for study abroad about a month and a half ago, and my girlfriend seemed cool with an LDR until I get back in March.

Turns out she wasn't. Called me 2 weeks ago to break up with me, saying it was "too hard." I found out from a friend not more than an hour later she'd been having sex with this guy she worked with as early as a month before I left the country.

Never been so pissed/heartbroken in my life.

You can only trust women to the point you have high value, as soon as that value drops, they will not care about you, and if anything dislike you.
Its sad as a lot of guys aren't taught this and never know the truth, and women are allowed to pretty much do what they want, if anything being a cheater is encouraged nowadays. None of this can harm you if you are centred and a have strong inner game, confidence and direction in life.

The first girl i ever slept with, went to university, and started seeing someone else, she stood me up on two occasions, once in my home town, and once when i went to see in her new city which was 200 miles away, it broke my heart.

I can't say i care now though, i recently split up with my gf, well she split up with me, and i couldn't even shed a tear.