- its been a month and a half since me and my ex of 8 months ( a personal record for me) split
- it was this forum that actually helped me build myself to the point when i could get girls like that relatively easy
- painful as shit breakup ( after about a month of relationship sort of dying out)
- every time I think I'm getting back on my feet I will see her either in my university classes or with mutual friends, which just send me back to square one
- I can't get her off my mind when I sleep or wake up and it's really holding me back
- I don't want tips on how to win her back, I want to know how to get get her off my mind, honestly I'm ashamed that I still feel this strongly after a month and a half

Any help would be appretiated guys, it's hard to have a good state of mind when it's as clouded by this shit as it is.

Fall in love with YOURSELF! you come first in foremost in your reality, love yourself and you will attract the reflection of love yet again into your life, and she will be history! build yourself back up, i know its easier said than done but there are billions of women on this planet! thousands if not millions that you will vibe better with !

Step into my carefree office for a second.

While you're at it, ninja kick the fucking door behind you, and have a seat.

Let me ask some questions.

1. Why does she have this effect on you? The only person that should affect you like this is Aphrodite.

2. Why are you letting this girl have so much mental power of you? Things like this happen, and it's in our human strength to get over these things. I remember a while back I talked to my mom about my breakup, and then she told me about her divorce after being married for 20 something odd years... made me feel like shit.

Moving on...

3. Literally, moving on. You've got a life to live, friends to have fun with, and family to care for. This single being, one out of almost 7 billion, that's 1/~7,000,000,000 has you losing sleep and slipping into a small depression.

Meet new girls, you'll be surprised how many fantastic females slipped by you while you were dating.

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Seeking advice from someone doesn't mean you have admitted defeat. It means you have acknowledged their superiority, and with their guidance, you will become more superior as well.

u guise are sick, a lot of those half a 7 billion women are children!!

all jokes aside there is still a lot of others out there but that doesnt even matter.

spend time with friends and meeting new people, you will meet new girls through new people, go out have fun, focus on a hobby, you gotta have a passion right? don't got desperatly searching for vagina because it isn't a good look, don't talk about your ex, even if you think about her you should give yourself a little slap round the face.

Keep at it along these lines eventually one day she'll pop into your head and you'll think "shit, i dont care about her anymore, sweet!" trust me that is a good feeling.

keep your head up mate, fake it til you make it!

The problem is,,, your feelings for her and sense of loss are in your subconscious mind. That cannot be reset on the conscious level quickly. You just have to keep fighting it and it will go away.

You play you pay...

Anyways, the only way to really speed the healing up, is to meet some other hot women. Find someone you like better and you are done. also, get rid of her completely, pictures, avoid places she might be seen, or going to places you spent time w her.

Think of it this way,,, woman who are big time players surround themselves with men. That allows them to jump around and never feel a sense of hurt.

Good luck

you say you can get similar girls 'relatively easy'.

well i was in your shoes a couple years ago.

girl ended it after 7 months. i felt like crap etc etc.

but then i realised, now is my chance to pick up a ton of other hot chicks.

now i actually feel excited at the thought of my gf breaking up with me, so that I can chase some new tail. nothing more fun than that.

Eat healthy

Go to gym everyday

Dont spend time in your house playing videogames and eating like crap

Start a new hobby

Try and meet new people.

DOnt spend much time alone.

Dont spend time talking to her...

Get rid of every trace of her.

If you have facebook, stop also

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

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What he said. Distract yourself, and things will get easier, I promise.