Hey Zulu,
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I have real problems with sets i am OK in day game approaching one on one but approaching any kind of a set I have trouble. I start thinking of how the hell do I speak to multiple people at once. Any suggestions for getting over this fear? And also what is the best way to approach a mixed set?
Try some acting classes or anything that involves you being the centre of attention. Opening multiple people is pretty similar except you need to talk louder and spread you attention (eye contact) around the whole group.
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Also when there is a silence during any interatcion i have i always seem to take that as a sign that I've blown it and I eject (And by eject i just leave without saying a thing) What's the best thing to do when the silence comes?
You can pause and keep eye contact and be comfortable. She will likely fill the silence by asking you a question or elaborating on what she was saying.
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I had one approach the other day which went very badly was in a bookshop and just made an opinion opener about a book to recommend for a present and i was told to fuck off. What would be the best way to respond in this situation?
Probably to say "sorry to bother you" and leave. In a night club a girl might be pitchy but you can still turn it around. In the daytime, less likely so she was probably having a VERY bad day.
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My night game is terrible for a few reasons, I have never been comfortable in clubs and the big problem is that I don't like the idea of shouting at people to have any kind of conversation is there a good way to get round this?
You've probably heard me talk a lot about non-verbal game. But first, get comfortable in clubs by going with the goal of enjoying yourself and not gaming.
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I am always reading in your posts about getting fashion advice but when i go hunting I get generic "look at GQ" type answers. And when i look at the magazines I just think now way i could wear that I'd look a right Dolt. Can you recommend a good cost effective way for a fashion blind like myself to start sorting his style out (by fashion blind i mean a guy who usually puts on the next clean set of clothes instead of planning).?
It's not what you think you look like, it's what the girls think. The guys in GQ look pretty good to me! I have styled myself based on people i've seen in the places I like to go who look very good. You can do the same thing. If you like how a guy looks, and women are all over him, ask them what brands he is wearing.
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