So this HB9 and I went on a first date with last week agreed to a 2nd date (tonight) I failed to kiss close her on the first date because she wasn't reciprocating any of my kino and she leaned away a little when I came near her.

However, she seemed pretty interested in me and always seemed to text me back this past week. She last texted me last night confirming my date plans after I was asleep:

Her: Sound's awesome! How was work today?? I got locked out of my car

So this morning I wake up to 3 additional missed texts from her saying:


Her: good morning
Her: So I really want to be honest with you and I think we should be friends
Her: If you want to be friends, I'm totally willing to hang out with you


Is it just me or do I have a right to feel pretty lead on here? In general, if someone is not interested in continuing to date, usually they just don't reply to your messages. I just feel like I was a 2nd option or she just genuinely was screwing with me. I just replied in a way to play it off, was this the right approach?

Me: I thought we were already friends.....what are you talking about?
Her: of course
(later that day)
Me: I can't make tonight, I'll ttyl
Her: No worries.

Anyway to game her from here or is it pretty much over?

you were a little pussy, and fell into her friendship frame

It's pretty much over now

You said yourself that she wasn't reciprocating your kino. Every girl is going to have a different reaction but one thing is clear, kino is the best indicator of interest. I don't just mean the big things, actually i think the biggest sign was that she leaned away from you.

Even shy girls tend not to lean away, or stay closer to those they are interested in. The fact she leaned away from me shows that she wasn't interested in you in that way.

Don't let it get you down though, not every girl is gonna like you. There are plenty more.

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But how could you have turn it around after the bad date?

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