It was eventually going to happen, we started a long distance relationship, and her nan recently died who she was close to, she called me to tell me what i already knew what was happening, it just wasn't working, i was able to turn around so it more seemed like i was splitting up with her not the other way, just I'm worried about damage control, SPAM I'm fine i have alot of good friends and and things going on around my life, at the same time though i feel a bit distressed that a relationship i was used to has now finished.

Her ex friend who lives with me, strangely who has been flirting with me for a long time, has turned very cold and bitchy, since she heard we split up which is kind of ironic, as she was very flirty and close to me when my and my ex where together.

Bottom line i just can't trust most people anymore, i see everyone like a disobedient child who can't be given too much attention otherwise they will take too much for granted, i am concerned about going back into the game. I am at university at the moment so its not hard to pull, but i think this experience has shook me up a bit.
I am coming to the PUA forum for advice, as you guys know what its truly like out there.
Many thanks

Don't worry man. Every time you lose something, getting abit depressed over it is part of the deal.

Just take your time to get your thoughts in order and don't start sarging to look for a new girlfriend. Start sargig because you want to be out with guys having fun and meeting new people.

Your life is about you, not your girl. You say that you don't trust people now, but the problem is you trusted them too much when you were wearing your pink love glasses.

Just knuckle down and and take care of yourself, and all will be well.

greetz

Bucc

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