Oh you, now I don't trust you anymore! It's 50/50 whether or not you are who you say you are... or if your the guy in the picture. tsk!

And the reason I know you haven't read it is because it is just like the game... if you've read it and you try it... you believe.

Your so cute!!! I like! You have a myspace?

Okay... should we get back to the stuttering now?

<3 Erin

Guess ill have to let your mind wander on that one, or you could just stare at my picture some more
You lie like a rug Missy, i think you were just judgin me. Its ok ive now added this book to my "To-Read" list.
Idk, i have to question the sanity of any girl who thinks im cute. Ill tell you what though, you can have my myspace but you gotta work for it. I posted it on the forums, if you find it ill graciously accept your friends invite. If your not capable of finding it on your own PM me for some tips

We just meet, dont tell me what to do Missy. I think we covered stuttering well enough, which is why you went off on a tangent. We can countinue our little convo on myspace, if you ever find my page

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"Be the same, only better."

Heyy, really sick responses. I really appreciate the thought that has gone into them. I will try the different ideas and respond with which technique works best to settle the debate. The reason my stuttering is so annoying is that I am an alpha build and alpha mindset, but my stuttering fucks that all up. i don't know how to explain it...i'll start speaking and then all of a sudden all my focus goes to my speech and i fuck up and then start blocking or thinking "shit i might stutter on this word" and try to substitute it which just adds to the existing tension.

But that being said i wouldn't like to act vulnerable about it b/c i would want my thinkingto be something like "i stutter sometimes, get over it". SPAM i am somewhat vulnerable about it b/c it adds so much frustration to a usually granted part of life. I'm not sure if it's cowardly to amplify this "disorder" or just look at it like it's apart of whoever I am. I'll try this out and get back on it. Thanks again people.

Whats sup KA, these sound cool but there is a much easier way of dealing with this. The problem with these lines is that they sound planned and therefore cheesy (and a tad bit TOO cocky). I stutter on occasions (but not alot) and what I realized is that its really not a big deal in sets. FOR one girls usually help you out while your doing it, if they are interested. What I started to do is I would pause while i'm talking and I would talk really slow because that helps with stuttering but most importantly it makes everything you say interesting so when you stutter it teases there mind because they REALLY want to know what you have to say next so they help you out almost IMMEDIATELY. SO pause while your talking to add suspense. Then another thing that helps is If your target doesnt help you, make light heart of the situation then tease.
SO here are some examples: (this is typed assuming its more than one girl around)(notice pauses)

her: have you seen that movie "american ganster"
you: yeah... i went with a home girl I really... lik lie li li
her: liked
yeah: Yeah how'd you know?...we are soulmates...I love this girl *1 arm hug her*
(you reward her for helping you out by giving value, make sure to stack to a new thing )

or

her: have you seen that movie "american gangster"
you: you: yeah... i went with a home girl I really... lik lie li li
you: you knew what I was trying to say,...this girl can go from friendly to straight evil so quickly
her: *laugh*
you: no no no but we love you *1 armed hug* (it gets kino, and its not super cocky)

Another great tool for a stutterer is too, always use routines. Practice makes its everything smoother, but also you can write different words to say for the words your using in your routine so if you stutter you can just replace the word, with another word that means the same thing.

But the number one rule for a stutterer is to stop as soon as you start.

If you really listened this WILL help ALOT

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NoboDY caN HaNG WIth MY STUFF...

That is the BEST way to think about stuttering.

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NoboDY caN HaNG WIth MY STUFF...

TO erin, I will make sure that when this ORGY... i meant ordeal happens lol, to not let god know.

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Haven't read any of the replies, but here is what I think.

Continue to work towards improving your speech and I am positive that you can overcome it completely one day. I have a very good friend who had a horrible stuttering problem when he was younger, as he got older he became more and more focused to work harder and harder to overcome his disability. Now, he's almost completely over it, around girls he's a sly and charming devil. Every once and a while he will slip, but its become so rare these days it's like he doesn't even have it.

I am sure you have been told something along these lines before, and you're probably sick of hearing, but anything is possible...ANYTHING.

In the meantime, I wouldn't even bother mentioning it, people will pickup on the fact you have it, so there is no use in pointing it out. Don't worry about it, seriously, the kind of people who will judge you based on your disabilities aren't the type of people you should want to associate with anyway. Trust me, people are more understanding and receptive than you think. Hold your head high, remain confident and make light of your problems, they are much easier when we can find humility instead of negativity.So walk your path, and walk it proud. And remember, you can overcome anything if you set your mind to it.

Meth.

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Amor est Vitae Essentia

I am not sure how many people know this but Mystery has a lisp.

Has not hurt him.

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Recommended reading list.

Double Your Dating by DD
(This will work on your inner game)

http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
(This will work on your outer game)

I stopped reading after the first page but I've stuttered since I was around four too (to tell you the truth I cant remember much before preschool) and it's effected almost every part of my life.
I got into this community to:
1. Gain confidence
2. Meet beautiful and interesting women
Sometimes stuttering is all about confidence and other times theres nothing I can do about it.

I find that telling people I stutter makes things easier for both parties and the girl usually pays even more attention to me holding eye contact and what not.

An example of how long talking can take sometimes:
I had to do an interview for a scholarship which I dreaded for two weeks until it came. To say the least I was nervous + the stuttering made everything feel worse. The interview was supposed to only be fifteen minutes but ended up being twenty five, ninety percent of that was filled with me answering questions. Anyway I got the scholarship and they knew I stuttered and sat through it

I had speech lessons from first to sixth grade and they only really helped during the actual instruction, but out side of it there was no improvement.

Also, after I've had a few I don't stutter as much if at all when I'm talking to women but thats not realistic to constantly be buzzed lol

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I studder and it has improved over the years but its still much more common than I'd like. I have never had anyone mention my stutter to me other than my parents. I talk very fast so I think sometimes its just overlooked as "he was talking fast and got tongue tied".

There was only one time I got made fun of for my stutter. I used to work at a Dunkin Donuts when I was 14 and a Indian kid who was like 16 who spoke horrible english and stuttered horribly worked with me as well. One day I was talking to the 18 year old and I started studdering and he said "fuck man you studder worse than Cherog" and everyone started laughing. Granted, it was a good joke, but it hurt a lot.

Ever since I was little I've been very conscience of my stuttering and I hate it. However it seems as if no ones notices it so I just live with it. I know everyone knows I stutter they just either dont care or dont want to hurt me

Thanks again for the replies. I've tried all types of mindsets/techniques but nothing seems to be concrete. I usually stutter the MOST when i have to read out loud ..(i usually refuse to and i'm in college, i'm sure it makes look like a big pus). But as i'm typing this i can read through this w/o a single stutter and i don't get as to why that is.

Yesterday i basically sat home depressed off my ass because the previous night i couldn't utter three sentences w/o skipping or blocking. Slowing down my speech only helps with not going "Bbbbrendan" but i'll still block(which means you literally cannot get the words out of your mouth). Eye contact was also very bad that night...i figured the reason why every time someone would look me in the face i'd look away as i spoke because i didn't want my face to be in full view when it distorts as i hit a bad stutter or block(basically my mouth is wide open and looks like i'm having an intense internal battle).

There were times where i'd be in a mindset where i'm speaking in a string of sentences which are pretty fluent, i'll then realize "hey , i didn't stutter" then i'd lose it and start "llllike" all over again. I've tried a little NLP self hypnosis and i'd feel really charged with my ability to communicate normally, but whenever i'm in the situation to speak my tail immediatly goes beween my legs because all my attention is on "not stuttering", which in fact..leads to more stuttering...a tortuous cycle.