So here I am... Yesterday, i went to a girl's appartement for diner (i was cooking and we had good wine). I've known her for a few years, we have been teasing each other for a long time, even when she had a serious bf, but this was the first date we had. So after our diner, i end up kissing her while doing the dishes hehe. At 12h I had to leave and this morning, she texts me that she doesn't want to get into something serious, because she still thinks about her ex...What should i do ?!

For sure I will see her by accident somehow, we have a lot of friends in common and she's known for being a tease, she's a 9/10, very hot. I also have friends in common with her ex-bf.

Thanks for your help PUAs
p.s. sorry for the weird english i'm a french-canadian

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Hippelo
I don't speak english, but I french very well

Fuck her

In this situation, I suggest you txt/call someone else, display some higher value and allow her to come back to you if/when she decides. Hanging around, trying to persuade her, could get you labelled as annoyingly persistent or even friendzoned.

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REBORN

Thx for the answer slick, I did that and last thursday we ended up at party, kissing all night, brought her back to my place but didnt had sex (she was in her period...). And this saturday, we also end up at a party, but the day before we said to each other that we shouldnt act like we hooked up earlier, so we basically didnt approach each other, i was dancing with other girls and she was talking to other guys... since then, not a single text was sent one each sides. I could see her this week for sure but don't wanna sound needy (she's supposed to cook me a diner cuz i cooked her one the other week).

I feel mind fucked, wtf should I do ? probably mindfuck her back but i dont know how to start...

thx

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Hippelo
I don't speak english, but I french very well

I'd say if more than 4 full days have passed since your last text/call you should CALL her (not text) and arrange for that dinner

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/\ /\ This answer, remind her she OWES you!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Play her slow, but keep her interested. Don't try to pursue too much, I know she's hot but just slow cook this one. Find other women and keep her in the background until she is ready to put out.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

Good advices. Tomorrow I'm going out with friends and I'll call her when I'll be a little drunk but i won't talk long, just enough... How's that ?

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Hippelo
I don't speak english, but I french very well

Be careful man. I'm not sure calling drunk is a good idea. One or two beers is ok but don't abuse.

Basically, just do exactly what puaninja says. He knows his stuff lol.

PS Je m'ennuie de Québec. J'ai hâte d'y retourner :'(

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