I would appreciate it if somebody gave me some feed back on. What are some good openers in a mall, party and in public? When you start talking to her, what do you usually talk about? About how many negs should i use? When is joking around going to far? Thanks for your responses

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Okay I can give you openers but really you need to create your own openers. I use different openers for different situations. I wouldn't use my opinion type myspace or blindfold openers that I like to use in the mall, because it would be inappropriate, they are better suited for a club or bar.

When I start talking to her and use my opener we talk about the opener and get them to "hook." Then I talk about my DHV stories, neg my target, and make friends with the rest of the group.

The amount of negs depends on the HB rating and how she perceives herself. You don't neg an HB6 but maybe once or twice lightly. A HB9 or HB10 you would need to neg more. Now here's the trick, and HB8 that's a stripper you may new only a few times, however, when she's at work she's a HB10 because she's in her element, and you have to neg her more. I hope you understand this.

When does joking around go to far, when you piss the girl off, and she's obviously upset because you overnegged her. Or what you thought was coming off as a neg was more of an insult.

What you are asking is so situational. Most of this you will learn from calibrating by going out in the field. Sounds like mostly you just need to get out there and practice. Take it a step at a time, you have to fail, before you can succeed. Do you have a specific situation you want to ask about.

Hope it helps!

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