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Hi I am 5'8, 150 lbs and 24 year old male at the prime of his life. I have a great job doing software with very good income. I can find time on the weekends to chill and at times I get busy during the week due to work and working out but I can find time to do me. But the issue is I have been single my whole life and the years of living alone and being by myself has taken its toll on me. I would live this life because I came from a broken home and I had to study and focus hard to make sure I could improve my life and my family's life, so I never had time to focus on girls. I saw them as a distraction that weighed too much on my mind if I got wrapped in them.
But I've come to a point where I find myself needing a girl and this hurts my ability doing any sort of pick ups cause at this point in my life I want a real relationship. Is there a way for me to build my confidence and causally talk to girls without feeling empty? The problem is I have lost my excitement in the idea of talking to random girls mostly due to needing more skill and lack of experience. Please help!! Willing to learn!
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Don't wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what. Get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident and more and more successful.
You need to remember your goal is not to look for sex or a woman but merely to look for and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
You will need to tear yourself away from the safe comfort of certainties that are not getting you laid!
CHAT
