So, periodically I like to go through my contacts list and send out a "one last" message to some of the chicks who I haven't talked to in months. Some may be only a month while others can be 3-4 months. For the most part, these girls may be ones I met at a club, at school or even hung out once or twice and gotten somewhere with them. Some ended up having boyfriends and I stopped talking to them while others stopped responding to me.

So, to see whether I may get a "last opportunity/hurrah" with them I will send out a text. A few answer, maybe 1 out of 10 or 2 out of 10 and thats fine. The rest get deleted and the ones who answer I try and pursue.

I believe some on here follow a similiar approach and I wanted to see what canned line you use to try and spark interest? I feel like I should mix it up but I'm looking into some advice on a more savvy approach possibly?

I generally just go with: "[HB name]! I hear we're hanging out sometime this week?"

Bear in mind girls often go through their phones and delete numbers, so if you still want to go the direct route, you need to put your name on the text or she may not know who you are.

Being direct and implying you want to meet up might seem too forward and DLV, especially if you haven't been in touch for a while. An "accidental" text might work, something which sparks her curiosity. Or a suggestive joke.

Having said this, building up social proof that these girls will notice (eg. in places where you know they hang out) will do far more for your game than texting.

Good luck bro.

Don't delete her. Ping her with funny texts. Use Holiday mass texts too. Girls get lonely around the holidays.

I like this.

I dont really bother with numbers anyway, I go the facebook route, and from there if you start talking you can exchange numbers. It has a much higher success rate, I guess because if they can see your profile, they gain a bit more comfort in knowing who you are... etc.

maybe your canned text could be something along the lines of... 'Hey I found this number in my phone, and I think we met ages ago, send me your name and Ill add you on facebook.'

Or you dont have to say you forgot them... depending how long ago it was. whatever.

I used to wake up hungover and find all sorts of numbers in my phone I didnt remember getting. Thats why I switched to facebook Good fun solving the mysteries of the previous night though.

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I like this.

I dont really bother with numbers anyway, I go the facebook route, and from there if you start talking you can exchange numbers. It has a much higher success rate, I guess because if they can see your profile, they gain a bit more comfort in knowing who you are... etc.

maybe your canned text could be something along the lines of... 'Hey I found this number in my phone, and I think we met ages ago, send me your name and Ill add you on facebook.'

Or you dont have to say you forgot them... depending how long ago it was. whatever.

I used to wake up hungover and find all sorts of numbers in my phone I didnt remember getting. Thats why I switched to facebook Good fun solving the mysteries of the previous night though.

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I use "Hail Mary" texts sometimes (in fact, I did yesterday, and ended up talking to a cute 20 year old who we had wanted to make plans to hang out, but never had, and she got a boyfriend - we ended texting for like 3 hours, sarcasm back and forth).

I never see a point to delete a girl. I need to get better organization FOR girls I meet though. You can text a girl 6 months, a year, hell even years later and possibly game her. Situations constantly change. Hell, sometimes I game random girls in other states or countries for practice, and in case I ever visit there. Doing that to a British girl right now, because I want to take a trip to Britain, bang a British girl, and stay for free .

Interesting thoughts here. I might stick with some the ideas here. I've had girls on FB who's number I deleted but they recently broke up with their boyfriend and we all know of the sex binge some chicks go on after a break up.

The holiday idea is a gem though, I'll use that more often now. Thanksgiving (Canadian)is coming up so it'll be a perfect start.

I use the holiday idea as well and game girls in places I know I'll be going in the future. Infact I'm gaming a few right now for when I take my trip to south America and the US.
Also I use the mass holiday text.
But my general text to old numbers is "hey (name)! It's been so long since we talked, when are we going out to party?!

One of my favorites is pretty simple:

"Hey, it's been a minute, I was just wondering if you were still alive."

If you have hung out a few times:

"Hey lady, just struck a though of you, I was wondering what kind of shenanigans you were into these days."

It doesn't really matter but I'd have to agree with RichardNelson he is spot on, send them something that evokes a smile and a response is best.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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i do the same sometimes when im boored. fact is i have a date with a girl whos number i took like 2 months ago and never called but texted yesterday.

I write differently depending on the relationship i have with the girl. If i never met her as in more then the time i got the number i say something charming about her and make a hint of who i can be (the tall guy usually since im pretty tall).

The one i sent yesterday was kind of cheesy because i remember this girl as young and kind of innocent. i sent "hi ***! your smile, hard to forget! Im back from my bussinesstrip.. the tall guy you remember? " (works better in my language). it worked well with this one because i have a feeling shes shy and so on.

If shes a bit more "used to things" i would approach nicely and charming but less needy.

So i guess i would categorize the girl first, then send call/text depending on what she likes. but put some effort into it

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Just wanted to give a lil' update:

It's Canadian thanksgiving right now and I sent out a mass text to friends and a bunch of women that I know/have known/haven't texted in months.

Great response rate, some that I haven't chatted to in months have opened up quite nicely! I got a few "Who is this?" told them who it was and they all opened up, thanking me and other fluff stuff.

Thanks for that tip, going to use it more often!

for numbers that have gone cold, I send a mass text

"you're pathetic"

then when they reply, I say "such a slut."

then when they reply, I call them and they'll pick up because they'll be wondering why Ii called them a slut. On the phone I tell them I'm kidding, and so we start bantering around, and I push for a meetup.

yehhh

Girls love to blabber about there weekend. Hit them up around 10am Monday morning with it's so and so just got back from my world tour....totally exhausted.
I know it may seem like I've been alienating you but I used a out of the country phone and thought I;d touch base with you....How was your weekend? - Your friend so and so When they ask you about your world tour tell them just a little about your last enjoyable trip outside the country.

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