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Sweet! and here I was posting up a storm thinking it was my last chance!
Lol... I think the question is how big?

and then the seccond is can the big boys learn how to play with a real lady? (like me!) lol J/k.... ?
Nice neg though, but anymore and you'll turn me off

... sorry, no smily for a pouty face
Sweetheart, my negs are like crystalline droplets of ecstasy with a hint of chili pepper. You have not yet had the distinct honor or pleasure of hearing one in person, or you would be holding onto every word I say like it was the last sound you will ever hear.
And as for playing with you, honey you've got to learn to dance before we can tango

Oh, my apologies for insinuating that.
The following message is intended for EVERYONE
You see, what just happened here was a classic case of push pull that went too far. too much push, not enough pull, as Mr. Strauss would say.
Now most girls could have and would have been pulled in to the "oh yeah? well..." game. Which had I wanted to play I would have replied with something like "who said you know how to tango?" or "baby, I know how to dance, I'm a stripper" (which I am) or other truly meaningless things that have no substance or character behind them and only serve to instigate more malarkey.
Most girls will go for this, but I had specificly told him not to neg me anymore... for the reason I didn't want to play that game... So the key here is to learn WHEN to stop, and start showing another side.
I will say though I was very impressed by the description of his negs... that was beautiful and tantalizing... unfortunately it was followed by...
If we were to put it into Mr. Greene's terms, what you should have done would have been to send mixed signals once again.
For example instead of showing offensive or defensive, which was expected, show no-fensive, which would have been a neuteral comment neither praising nor tearing down my previous comment. It shows an air of (fuck my spelling) non-chalance. Kind of like the one that I used at the beginning of this comment... or changing the subject
Questions are great ways to make a comeback at someone too. It puts them on the defensive, and it makes them feel like your testing them which, you should know as a pua, is EXTREMELY seductive.
The best thing to do though would have been to take the positive route if you previously took the negative. you have to show interest with disinterest too much of one spoils it.
apologies are great ways to disarm people. It show character that you know when to back down. For example what I would have done is to apologize for starting the "Oh Yeah?" game immediately then would have moved into something like, "it does sound like fun to play with a lady, I haven't gotten to do that in like 3 months *pout*" this works on so many levels that I can't even describe it here cause I've written way too much off the subject!
We were talking about guys in the military right? lol
If you guys want to continue this one, I'll be more than happy to oblige in a new thread
<3 Erin