Hey guys, so I am taking a few steps back here to re-evaluate my progress being 10 years into this.. There has been no other teacher on the planet that has connected with my style as strongly as Brad has. I coached with him 7 years ago. The magic 7. 7 years ago, I was living in my room, in Connecticut, not going out, but when I did, I would realize how painful and uncomfortable it was to even look at a female face.

Here's the thing, I'm not a bad looking guy. I don't have a chiseled face, movie star defined abs, and sometimes, I'm told my breath smells real bad not because I don't brush, but because of some gland that is overexcessed with crud. So, I've got physical set backs, and I sure as hell don't have the luxury of going places and being stared at like a piece of meat, I am usually the one chasing those who are..

Come Brad P, the only guy in this business who I can say whole heartedly I trust and believe in till this day. I found his coaching through the internet 7 years ago and when I got on the phone with him, his voice was like that of an angel. Soft, easy going, and committed to seeing me successful at this very weak part of my life which is getting laid, to put it bluntly.

7 years later to this day, I live in SoCal, was a pretty decent high stakes cash game poker player, have gone out with JTR and the Casanova Crew, worked along side as an intern at the Original Project Hollywood with Vince Kelvin and Speer, and just got through attending the Ultimate PUA Convention last weekend in Hollywood. Guess who was there... None other than, my 7 year to this day old mentor, Brad P.

It was when he started talking, I realized how much I liked this guy's schtick. It's real, authentic, and yeah, he has the results to back it up. That's what I like. Statisics and proof. Too much fluff in this community, but proof, I don't see that much, especially to the extent he was showing it at. in great, graphic detail

I decided after the convention, I would start looking up his old field reports and implement them into my own life. I will post the reports or content that I like from his past ASF threads and along side it, will write my own reports using the same techniques and ideas he used. The man is a living legend in this community, and I am definitely not the type after 10 years to be hero worshipping anyone anymore. I should be out there being the one hero worshipped with 10 years experience right? Not to the slightest. I am still struggling getting past mid game and end game. Openers are easy, i have 0 fear in approaching girls, whether it be 1 sets, 2 sets, 4 sets, I don't give a you know what if they walk past me or don't acknowledge my magnetic presence, because I have a lot on the line in my own life that I have to make this work or it's over. The idea of fearing rejection is not an idea that holds weight in my mind anymore, it's a useless idea, and it's wasting time and progress. I will not live this life empty and lonely anymore, I deserve to get laid after all this heartache and pain, and it's time we do this thing the right way together!

This thread will be updated once or twice a week with my results. I am going to post a field report of Brad's and straight up go for it all. I am 26, I am not going to be an rAFC for the rest of my damn life. I deserve to get this social aspect of my life covered and down pat. If I don't, I won't see tomorrow. It's that extreme, I need this covered or I won't survive.

Who's to stop me? Girls? Guys? The law? I don't care, I am bold now. Like gaining a new skill in World of WarCraft, I have just leveled up with the power of Boldness. Now I must take this trait, and utilize the techniques (the what to says, what to dos) and make sense of all this community madness and have it start showing its results. Too much good information out there, very few is put into practice consistently. A lot of guys I know have dropped off because they either moved on or gave up, well, same thing isn't it? You're giving up if you don't master this aspect of your life. Period.

I'll get his first field report posted tonight and will have mine alongside it. I know this is going to change my life because I believe in it, and that's all that counts

Ch. 2 from Adventures of Brad P:

Tonight was another crazy adventure. I have a few things I was working on and a few things everyone might be able to learn from. In my quest to improve my game every day, one thing that I'm working on is not being intimidated by the really hot 10+ girls. 8s and 9s are routine and easy by now, but the super duper hot ones still get me a little nervous. Maybe some of you can relate. The girl I was planning to hang out with was off the scale hot 20 year old from Louisiana. She looked just like Alyssa Milano... we'll call her “Alyssa” but anyway...

I'd consider this our second time meeting. The first day we met she was in NY on vacation, I taught a seminar that day and was out on a field mission with my students. A student wanted to approach her friend. I sent him in, I could see he was about to get rejected so I entered the group. I chatted up the friend for a minute with my standard rap. Alyssa is looking bitchy. I say “Hi, I'm Brad” and offer her my handshake. She goes for my hand, I take my hand away 4th grader style and say "Oh, got you!" The bitchy vibe melted away instantly. We talked for a while. My social value with the friend helped my student get a better reaction on his end and he ended up getting a phone number. I got a number too cause she is from a state that I knew I'd get to eventually.

Fast forward 3 months, here I am in her hometown. I had spoken to her 4 or so times on the phone. We ended up talking about my dating guru job because her friend was creeped out by my student calling and e mailing her. I think I'm mixing business with pleasure here, but I tried to continue putting in a good word for my student. On the phone I would often run the “Sven” routine, this is where I put on a German accent and claim to be Sven, Brad P's personal assistant. The chicks always know its BS but they love it. I was getting major flake vibe so I knew I'd have to use tons of good material. I think I may have used every technique in the arsenal.

To get her to call back I used the old "Yeah I'm here and ran into someone who knows you already and they said something so funny (phone cuts off)." It was my first time using that, it worked, except I kinda forgot to formulate the rest of the story, so when she called back I said some weak ass shit about a guy in a deli claiming to know her. There's no deli's anywhere near here, but she didn't call me on it. On the phone I'm telling her to come meet me at this rock show, she's afraid to come, she hates loud rock music. I also think she's one of those girls who are afraid to go out because she's getting hit on 99 times a night. She's all talking about staying home to do homework, shit like that. I say "Figure it out, we'll talk later."

I call her later and I tell her that she has to tell me whether she's coming or not cause 10 strippers just pulled up and they want me to leave with them. She actually believed me, and then I told her she failed her first smart test. I think this got her worked up enough to get motivated about meeting up with me. Whenever she started getting flaky I'd just bring up the 10 strippers again. Even though it wasn't real, there was something about it that got her back into an excited state and ultimately the flakiness went away. I also started telling her what to wear and that I hate it when people wear blue with black. I was being really picky and weird about details. Then I'm like "I don't wanna twist your arm just decide, it's really no big deal to me" and she agreed to come meet me.

Damn that was a lot of tactical shit just to get a girl to meet up! But fuck it; this is some important practice for me. So she calls when she's leaving, I'm not willing to talk too long. She shows up 5 minutes later, we head off to Chili's for dessert. I run 8 girlfriends routine (where I tell the chick I have 8 girlfriends, they all know about each other and it's a cool deal). She says "yeah I went through a phase like that where I dated 4 people at a time and would just randomly dump them or treat them like shit. But I've only really liked someone like once or twice in my life." This was an interesting look into the reality of a hot chick. They go through life frustrated that there's no one for them to be into. She also mentioned how she's aware that she likes guys who are assholes. I talked about that a few times and also had demonstrated asshole qualities, so she knows I'm an insider.

I run sexy knees routine, more smart tests, keep up the obvious BS stuff, read the palm, run some psychic stuff, Tom Hanks story, tell her how girls want me everywhere I go, analyze her dream, play into her insecurity about breast size and nose shape (hot girls get obsessed about their small imperfections). I thought I went overboard on that but it didn't present any problems.

I start talking about sexual topics. I tell her a story about how I boned a girl who looks just like her but only once. When she asks: “Why only once?” I hint that my cock was too big for the girl.

We get back in the car, drive through college campus. I try to isolate, no dice. She takes me back to the rock show, I up the kino-escalation (touching) a bit touching, smelling. Some car drives up and catches me with this girl's ankle in my hand cause she claimed to have fat knees and hot ankles. I stroke her hair. Touch the neck, almost couldn't bring myself to kiss her. So I tell her I'm leaving to watch the show and she should go home and study. I went for the kiss which went surprisingly well. She giggled, then another one. Just goes to show that you have to not talk yourself out of this stuff. I know damn well that nothing bad can come of being rejected on a kiss, but we all have that little bit of a chump left in us, even me.

Logistics prevented me from escalating further. Too many people are in the parking lot. But I felt good about that one. This is the hottest chick I ever kissed, and I stalled out a bunch of times, almost got flaked on a bunch of times, and persevered. I think she'll be wanting more.

People say the super hot girls are easier to game, but I don't think that will help you too much until you really go and experience it. Maybe a few months from now I'll think the super hot girls are easier to game, but I'm not there yet.

Ok now onto the action packed sex fest. After the show, 3 girls (who don't know each other) start talking to me. One is talking; I put my arm around the other before even looking at her. I say to "girl 1" "I hope this girl I have my arm around is cute cause I didn't even look at her." So I'm sitting there with a 6, a 7, and an 8 and like 5 dudes. The 7 and the 8 have a dude with them, but I play with their boobs a little anyway. The 8 is quizzing me on microbiology in response to my smart tests. I tell the 8 girlfriends story again. I asked the girl who was a 6 if she wants to be my girlfriend. She says yeah. The girl who is a 7 is holding my hand in front of her boyfriend... (maybe not her boyfriend?)

The 6 looks good to go and time is ticking fast. "Wanna take a walk?". Isolated her behind the dumpster at IHOP. Kiss, tits, rubbed pussy. Then she's all "I don't know I just met you..." (Last minute resistance). I'm so not in the mood to hear that from this chick, I could have had much hotter girls, I was just was in a hurry. Keep going, start sucking titties and whacking it. I will do that sometimes if time is limited and the last minute resistance is fierce, just to get a nut off. She's fine with it; I change my mind and decide I don't like this girl… too ugly and annoying. I stop everything. I take her back. She's hinting for my phone number, I'm changing the subject. I level with her and tell her I do not have time to be getting to know you for 3 dates before sex. She says come back to this town to see her. I'm thinking: WTF I'd never fly across the country to fuck a pudgy 6 who's already annoyed me by roadblocking me behind the IHOP dumpster. That's absolutely ludicrous. I'm trying to drop this chick PRONTO! She's all annoying about the phone number thing; I take her number to shut her up.

One of the hotter girls is waiting to chat with me. She and her man chat with me for about 15 minutes. They're real cool. He goes inside the club. I'm left outside with her and I really had no intention of gaming this girl, but she started escalating. She's says "Why did you walk off with that other girl?" I said cause you other two had a boyfriend, and I was in a hurry. Then I told her that I decided I didn't like the other girl and brought her back. She's says "What like bringing something back to the store?" I say "Yeah exactly." She says that's not her BF. I say well he's your orbiter. She's says "Huh?"

I go into a discussion of orbiters and the world of picking up girls, and how I teach it. I tell her an orbiter is a guy who hangs around and acts really nice, hoping to get sex from you, but never actually trying anything. I still have no intention of gaming her. She's getting HOT from the discussion of pickup. Weird. Her eyes are getting all big as I talk about how guys will stick around for years as a friend, then try to pounce when you're lonely. She's holding my hand again. How did that happen?? I start making out with her. "Wanna go for a walk?" I say.

We start making out in the parking lot. I tell her I'm worried that her orbiter will get his feelings hurt. "And he's such a nice guy."

When you want a girl to realize that you are more dominant than the other men in her life, it's a good idea to refer to them as a "nice guy" because women are not sexually attracted to nice guys, they are sexually attracted to dominant guys.

In this case, I was using the "let’s not hurt his feelings" vibe to get her to walk further away from the bar with me. We end up in an empty parking lot across the street. She's good to go!! We make out, fuck from behind. Pretty decent fuck.

While walking back I'm still concerned about the orbiter, so I have her walk back 2 minutes ahead of me while I do a big loop. Note: She made no statement that we should be careful, gave no indication that the guy might be upset, she played dumb 100%. She didn't even think of an excuse to tell the guy. I was getting a funny feeling that there was gonna be problems, so I hatched the 2 minutes apart plan and spoon fed her an excuse that she went to pee in the woods.

I'm walking back and I hear her orbiter cursing and screaming. I guess that WAS her boyfriend! He knew exactly what was going on. My friends said he was looking for me the entire time. I get into my friends van. The guy is stalking around the parking lot screaming and cursing at the sky! Ha ha ha. It was like some thing out of Braveheart. He was screaming like some evil villain, "I'LL KILL YOU MOTHERFFUCKER!!! I'LL GET YOU NEXT TIME BRAD P.!!!"

He told all my boys that it was his girlfriend. This type of stuff doesn't happen to me often, but everyone should keep in mind that it is one of the dangers of the pickup lifestyle. I really would not have fucked her if I knew her BF was there, I think she escalated the whole thing, I was just smart enough to read the signs.

So now I have a new policy. If it's unclear whether there's a boyfriend,I'm not going to ask the girl, I'm going to ask the guy if this is his girlfriend. Safety first, ya know.

What did we learn today kiddies? 1. Don't psych yourself out about super hot girls (Easy to write here, hard to do it in real life) 2. If a girl is super attracted to you, she will do anything to get you and fuck you right in front of her boyfriend's face, putting her ass on the line and yours too. Whoa, scary huh?

I have the same exact feelings of nervousness from super hot girls that Brad did back in this field report. It sometimes would pain me to even be in the same room as them because I would catch myself looking at them, or she'd just find out and I'd get caught.

However, today, I went out. Yes, I went out. I deal in something kinda nerdy, coins. I actually do really well at it, I am a master of my own game when it comes to buying really nice collector coins and reselling them collecting a handsome profit. Anyway, before I headed up to Valencia, CA (Where my ex black model gf is from, I dunno why I still tie her to that place!!) I had to run some errands in my town of Santa Monica. I went to the post office and as I got out of my car, I saw a beautiful long legged blonde walking around the corner. I started chasing after her (something I was taught to do in Pickup 101), and by the time I got to her car, i saw her face, and she was drop dead beautiful for a middle aged girl. I couldn't say anything. I ran all that way for nothing, just to see her drive off and let the dust hit me as I watched her drive away... :'(

I do that to myself a lot, I sabotage my own game. Fuck, it pains me just to think about it. Like I said above, I am not a bad looking guy and I do sometimes have girls come up to me or show me interest with their eyes, but I always seemed to blow it by initiating some rapport, but completely bottoming out with no material.

That's why by reading Brad's work, I am now becoming aquainted with openers like the horse opener, and some others.. I can't wait to see how my game changes just by reading and doing what Brad did when he first started out.

Alright so after my errands, I drove up to Valencia to go to my weekly coin shop that I bid on coins at.. Valencia is a pretty posh town in most parts, so there's never a shortage of pretty girls up there.. I had to stop into Walmart and outside the door was a LA Fitness soliciter, but she wasn't just some fat chubby chick, she was tall, red hair, (Yes, first red head ive opened in ages!) and she had a real nice movie star smile.. As I was leaving Walmart, I went to her and said, "Hey.. this stuff looks interesting you're selling.. I might be moving to the area soon, I have some friends out here.. " she interupted by starting the sale on me.. As I mentioned above, I don't hero worship or get sold to easily, believe me, I've been in the community for a long time, It is VERY hard to sell me especially when I am not getting anything of true value out of it.. so before she went into her pitch, i was bold and interupted her and said, "I'm gonna be honest with you.."::Pause::, "I think you're really beautiful and you seem like someone I'd like to get a drink with sometime.. Are you of drinking age?" she seemed kinda young and said yes.. I was like, "Okay, caus a lot of girls look older but are only like 17, i don't wanna get in trouble for this.." and she kinda laughed. I said, "I'm xxx" and it's "Nice to meet you." shook her hand, nothing fancy, and said, "Its not often you find red heads out here that so beautiful, she kinda went along with it.. got a number close and that was that. I had to gulp a few times I got so fuckin nervous lol, I've been out of this game for so long, so I feel like such a chode sometimes, but, at least I went for it. It's about boldness and doing. That's all I am about right now. Just pushing myself and feeling the feelings of hurt, rejection, pleasure, whatever comes out of a social interaction with a girl.

That's about it, nothing spectacular but I gotta get this portion of my life covered. I won't be happy if I don't, so it's on, really. I need material, like a comic who goes up on stage, sure he may be bold and confident to get up, but if he has no material and has no improv skills, he's a dead duck in the water. That isn't gonna be me, that's why I'm going to study Brad's material and get this aspect of my life covered once and for all. No more community mental masturbation, now, it's just doing... doing doing doing, and more doing.

-Jay

Brad's Report:

Last Friday
I took a phone number from an insanely hot girl with a super bitchy friend. Delivered the horsegirl opener, the girl I wanted and 1 friend loved it. Then the super bitchy friend heard the end and got totally hostile. “What! You're calling my friend horse girl?!” But the other 2 bailed me out. That one super bitchy friend proceeded to bust my balls with or 10-15 tests before I could really get to the girl I liked. Finally I got to the her, did some standard vibing and a palm reading. I took her number quickly and left without saying goodbye. Have gotten a few emails back and forth with that one. Also took numbers from 2 Russian girls in the park.

The best pickup of that night was a blond who I pulled out of a different bar. She was drunk and silly and I kissed her within 3 minutes by giving her total playful alpha vibe. Very few words were spoken. She had a long scarf on, I blindfolded her with it, grabbed her by the back of the hair and kissed her right there. Could not get her to settle down to do anything more seductive. She was too silly to run dirty talk on, I tried. I did a few venue changes with her and her friend with my student as a wing man. We went out to another bar, out to eat, then made out in a cab. I'm running this taxi thing all the time that's like “Yeah I think making out in a taxi is the most romantic thing...” It works great. She was past the point of drunk and so tired I didn't try to go to her place, which maybe I could have, but that really tired drunk thing is unappealing to me. I can't get a call back from this one.

This weekend's field report will be a Saturday Night to Sunday Morning one. No I didn't sarge from Sat night all the way through this morning that would be bold, but I did split up the times I went out.

Let's start off with Saturday,

I went to the Gym around 7 pm and at my new Gym on a Saturday night, it is dead after 7. (Boy this # 7 sure comes up a lot in my posts, notice?) Anyway, I am on this diet to gain muscle and mass. I weigh 148 lbs and am 6'1. Yeah, that's bad, I know. and it's mostly my arms that are the thing I'm most self conscious about, wouldn't you be if they looked like sticks? So I'm this full body and mind transformation program that I kinda created. I believe we live this life consciously only once, so why not live it to the best of our own human ability? And that's what I'm off to achieving. Spent about 35 minutes in the gym (I know, I'm a quitter, I gotta work up to an hour of hard workouts) but at least I got out. This gym is located on a very busy main street in Santa Monica, like, 1 girl waking by the window every 20-40 seconds, seriously, I timed it! As I'm running on the tread mill just to warm up, I realize how bitter I'm getting just looking through the window at my future catches. It's like, I'm window shopping and nothing more than just that. So I leave the gym and I start going to cold approach mode. Totally triggered it out of the blue. I approach this one girl and said something about her dress.. See, the girls in where I live in Venice/Santa Monica dress veryyyy veryyyy loose, like, hardly any clothing but not in a slutty provocative "look at me" kinda way, no, it's just the way of the wind out here, everyone does it caus we're close by the beach. It's natural. Very liberating and free. So most of my openers are consisting around their dresses because that's what these eyes are feasting on every time I see a beautiful chick! So it's usually, "Love the dress!" or , "You look really intriguing with those colors.." I'm starting to learn up cold reads again, so that last one could definitely go far with their personality..

but, we're not there yet

So, I did a shit ton of warm up sets and eventually , just didn't feel motivated anymore. Kinda fell into a slump. Got real depressed, or tired, or something, and I just gave up and rode my bike back to my apartment. I don't know what to say, it started off strong from the gym and half way back, but the other half way was just blahhhhhh.. the volume of my voice dropped dramatically and i just wasn't confident anymore in doing approaches, see i'm not used to doing night approaches, i'm usually a day guy, but i definitly want to learn night time game. so, maybe just with the workout and their being this different vibe at night, i just slowed down..

To no avail, I didn't quit..

This morning, I got back from a coin show after the 405 has been closed for the weekend (What a headache amongst itself!), went to play some cards late last night after the gym / approaching, and came home.

There's a Farmer's Market on Main St going down and the streets every Sunday get FILLED up with Estrogen. I mean, 60/40 women, maybe more. Ok I'm being conservative, 80/20. For real! Guys, come out and Sarge here, it's UNBELIEVEABLE on Sunday, it's a SARGE FEST!!!!

So, after reading Brad's Chapter on what he did with taking a number from an Insanely hot girl with a super bitchy friend, I decided that next week I am going to officially learn , Brad's "Horse opener". It sounds off the hook! I really want to start using that so that I can have witty material now to get the interaction going somewhere!

Anyways I did a lot of warm approaches, hell, I'm not calling them cold approach anymore, let's call them warm approaches.. Why the hell not? Why make them be cold, that associates the mind with negatives, how about warm approaches? We don't want to approach girls being cold so yeah, did like 8 warm approaches today and some on my bike, nothing that lasted more than a few seconds like, when these three 8's were looking at some dresses outside a boutique, I said, "I'd go for that one! " they kinda smiled but didn't get much of a reaction. whatever, i don't care, i just go for it now.. i'm already starting to feel better about myself and pickup as i am only on day 3 of this whole thing!!!

So back to Brad, what a class act, man, this guy puts all his material out on the net for us all to read and he doesn't charge for it like some puas like to do, i mean he does, but a lot of this is available to us. I have yet to pull and kiss yet, but there are TONS of blondes and hot girls drunk outside Main St bars on weekends, hell, every fucking day! So I'm down to start working my game up to that level..

I watch Brad's approaching video and that's how I get a lot of my confidence before going out. I don't know why I connect to this teacher so much, maybe he's from the East Coast living in LA like me now, I dont know, but he's a rad dude.. So likeable. That's the video. Perfect for a guy like me just getting out there. I hope he does more of these in the future..

That's about it, I am just getting out again and starting to bring the light back into my life. Believe me guys, I'm a skinny as a rail dude but am kinda handsome too, so it's like, I gotta get this weight thing covered before I'm 30 or I'm gonna die, that's how serious it is. It's not like i'm fat and have a weight problem where i can actually die, but my survival depends on this weight gaining. I cannot be a protector of women being as skinny as I am, without a doubt.

So until next week, hope you all enjoyed my field report.

Chapter 8: Flake out, drawing a crowd, 2 hr seduction

Got off work around 8 and went down to a bar in NYC to meet up with a girl I met on HotorNot. She's 18, looks really hot from the pictures, kinda like an Olsen twin. Online dating is like a treat for me cause I never get to do it while traveling, so I was looking forward to this one. She didn't show up, which is not really that disappointing, because I specifically chose a place to meet her where there are other women to meet.

10 minutes after meet time I was thinking she's late and possibly not coming, so I get a number from this insanely hot girl who's waiting on the corner, meeting someone on the way to the Bauhaus concert. She's SMOKING HOT, so I open her with my "Do you like horses?" opener. That goes well. Bauhaus is kinda obscure but I know them so she's asking me if I'm a musician, what band I'm in etc. I refuse to tell her. I tell her she might be a stalker, etc. She's gotta go so I take the number. Kind of a soft close but we'll see, I think I built some mystery and value by refusing to give info on myself.

Now I go in and get a soda, I conclude the Olsen chick is not coming so I start having a look around the place. If she walks in on me gaming that's even better cause half the girls in the place will be attracted to me by that point. I'm ONLY opening girls who are mega hot I decide, cause I don't need practice opening; I need quality first and foremost. I open a 3 set, also with Horse Girl opener, then go into Tom Hanks story, Brad Pitt routine, Reckon/Yonder routine, some natural conversation, then get e-mails from all 3 girls and a number from the target, a hot blond. Their table was ready and they were leaving the bar. I'm thinking I probably could have had dinner with them, as they were all attracted and then tried to seduce the blond, but I was just getting started. I'd rather game more, maybe find a hotter girl or something where there aren't so many friends to deal with. I go check out the dance floor downstairs, nothing good. I'm done with this place. I head out to discover what else is going on. It's Saturday night and the fish are jumping.

I go out to the park and open a brunette on the bench. She's not so cute close up as she was from further away. Eject. There's so much going on that I decide to just take it in and not concentrate on gaming. You can miss a lot of cool stuff in life if you just think about gaming all the time. There's a bunch of dancing orthodox Jews having some sort of crazy celebration with music and dancing. They're waving flags that say "Messiah" and drawing a crowd with their crazy antics. Across the street is a 6 piece brass band playing funky jazz songs, and some pissed off Nation of Islam guys 20 feet away preaching angrily at passer bys. What a site! The music and the preaching blended together to create a unique sensory experience.

Very inspiring report! I can't top it, but tonight, I went out on the town and did some car pickup which almost led to something. Guys, I can't stress enough how much in my shell I was before getting back into this pickup stuff only 3 months ago!! So I am like a turtle, coming out slowwlyy.. Anyways, I did some car approaches and just yelled out to a group of girls, "You all look like you're looking for the action.." they said, "Hell yeah! Whre are u going?" and then Mr. Sabotage (Me) is like, "I'm lookin too! Good luck guys" and drives off like a scaredy bitch.

Damn do I sabotage more than I like. If I just pulled over, all of us could have merged and I would have taken over the group and led them to my bed room. They were a bunch of ugs though, well, most were..

Did some more warm approaches from my car to some girls walking down the street, I'd go direct and say, "You've got a beautiful pair of eyes..from over here" and she laughed, still haven't found the balls to command them over to my car.

I really like this idea of Brad P using the Horse opener because it seems really steadfast and quality first. When I get some comfort time tomorrow, I will take the time to learn it, at least understand it and attempt to memorize it. I used to be an actor, I should memorize this stuff easily!

Anyways, onto another day we go.. Oh boy!

So I have to do a progress report.
A light bulb went off just a few days ago..

I was at the Post Office picking up a package and this 7.5 older gal, let's say she's 34, Roxanne, was there frustrated as hell that they lost her mail. I calmed her down with a soothing voice and some banter. We chatted for about 15 minutes before the desk clerk showed up to talk to her about her little dilemma. I just stretched my boundaries that day and talked to another person. Something so rare to do these days it seems, lol, especially in a cold stoic Post Office.

Brad literally just with one recent phone training convo got me in a state of comfortable relaxation when around females of the opposite gender. I don't know what happened, but I've been soooo non chalent and not caring, like, these days, any thought that comes to mind gets blurterd out, within reason of course

The next step I feel at this stage is taking this whole boldness thing to the next level and doing insta streeet make outs with strangers, like, pure random girls. It's definitely possible!! Seen these guys do it before.. now it's time i finally step up to the plate, and do it myself!!

I thought of this technique, let me run it by you guys.

Walking up to a set, stop them, say, "Hey guys, i have to tell you something. You both have this go with the flow type of air about you.. If I told you to do the most randomly seeming thing in the world right now, would you consider the thought?

They say, "what"

I say, "Okay, this might not seem like something most people normally do, but if we just set all those pre conceived ideas of what we know is right or wrong to do in public for just a second, and went with it, what do you think others would react??

They say.. ok whattt

Pick the one girl out of the two, the one you really fancy the most, and go , "This may seem different, but I can tell you love a good adventure. You and I should kiss. But not just any kiss, I can tell how clean your soul is by touch of your lips. Let's give it a go?

look at her deeply assuming she is going for it, and say, "Let's find out..." move in, granted you have been kinoing a bit before, and grab her shoulder, bring it towards you, and go for a makeout.

That's something I just made up, maybe it'd work, maybe it wouldn't, but you can basically doa full blown kiss test and see if they comply. or, more simply, you look like you taste like .... :improv fruitful flavor: apple.. i think the ambitious side of me kinda has to find out

But yeah you get tthe drift, just finding ways to segway right into makeout within less than 10-15 seconds of meeting. I've done it before when my boldness levels were above 10+ but now, since ive been out of the game, im getting back into it.

WIll report from Dallas next week and let you all know how things are going..

Any Dallas guys reading here today? if so, PM me, let's wing when im out there this week!

Guys this is ridiculously insane, I have been using some bold thinking to barrel through my AA and it's working. These techniques are not brad's however, they are my own, and I think that after my trip to Dallas last week, I used a lot of inner game pushing to push myself out of these weak comfort spots that I have with women.

Ex.

On the bus to the airport, HB7 with big sexy Bug eyes sits across from me. She eyes me and I'm like, "You made it". She laughs.

We start talking about what we're here for and I get into her passions. What drives her, what she loves. She had a tat on her arm that was of a Yogi she's learning under in India. referenced that. She sparked up her passions in 15 minutes to the point of describing detail by detail the FEELINGS of traveling and Sky Diving(something she recently told me she did). She told me the inner feelings she felt and when she dropped in free fall, how those feelings made her feel.

Automatically, I anchored those feelings to me by telling her she's the total package and used hand movements to get her eyes looking down towards my crouch, but very discreetly. Who knows it that's the right way to even anchor, but fuck it, i'm trying everything!

This week, I promised Brad that I would listen to all his material he sent to me and try to infuse his teachings and identity exercises into my lifestyle. Wow, I am really stoked and hope some of you in the SoCal area will come out with me and we can try it out.

I do a lot of the Local SoCal lairs, PM me if you're up for it. Let's keep this rolling field report going, and hopefully it's teaching a lot of you of one man's experience with who I deem the most legitimate PUA in t his business who isn't trying to go for the all too common "money grab" with his students, I'm not even paying Brad, he's doing it because he believes in me and wants to see me flourish. Can't say that about most guys.

-Jay

By the way, my biggest problem in my game right now is not having any technique. I have the mindsets pretty much understood to a good degree but the actual rehearsed and practiced technique is where I'm at right now. Like I said, anyone in the area wanting to move up in the ladders with their game shoot me a msg. -Jay

This last week, I listened to Month 1 from Brad P's 3030 Program and it rehashed the basics most of which I already knew but it's always refreshing to hear things again like, identity, fashion sense, alpha / beta body language, etc etc

So this past week, I had a few revelations go down. Firstly, I no longer take shit from people, that's first and foremost. Like, if someone wants to disrespect me, they won't get away with it. Which is a farcry from how I used to be because I used to let people walk all over me like a door mat, no longer. girls respect this.

Secondly, I'm not caring as much as I used to about rejection and shut downs. I still have a lot of points where i feel insignificant taking to prettier girls, but that will all change as I keep up my new training regiment at the gym and start putting on weight. Yes these last few days have been real lazy days with me playing Assasins Creed 3 and all, but once that's done, I will be out and ready to play again.

Understanding the numbers behind this. With my new fashion sense and mindset on where to come from while approaching women, I no longer come from a needy place, it's always the chooser mentality and agressiveness. Not to sound racist, but a lot of strong alpha black men have this dominant trait about them, well, I stole it from them and am now using it too. I just dont give a ... F!

That's the key to all of this, just not giving a hoot, and I don't as much, yes, I still have fears and insecurites, but those are getting brushed out the more I listen to Brad's stuff on his program. I can't say this enough, out of every PU instructor on the net, Brad is the least preachy but the most results oriented ive found in a while and that setup really meshes well for me.

Hope you guys can give him a try too. and.. for the off chance you live in Santa Monica AND are a Brad P student, hit me up here, i'm telling you, we'll have a lot of fun learning this stuff together. have like those old college study sesh's ya know??

Haha, anyway, no particular results happened this week but more of just a mind shift I had which I will call my revelation.

I still gotta be giving this a lot more effort than I am and plan to do that next week.

Stay tuned!

Approaching girls with the line, "Peanuts" seems to work. It's a sexually implicit word and just gets you free from all the community jargon out there like opinion openers and such. I'm finding it's more about doing than about saying.

So far, I've been hitting the gym a lot more. Gained 2.5 lbs in the last month. My skinnyness isn'tlooking so skinny afterall. Here's a funny but educational field report of his I am reading now for my daily inspiration.

Chapter 26: I am the VIRGIN SURGEON!
A few weeks back I was on the Internet bitching about how these hot girls I've been doing meet ups with have turned out to be virgins. It's taken some interesting turns and I guess it's not as bad as I thought.

This report will be about the tall girl from Texas. She gave head for the first time in her life the other night and I was the lucky recipient. A few of you who go on missions with me might remember her because I picked up her in a demo, she was with 5 friends at the lounge spot we usually go to.

Anyway, here's how things progressed from opening to the blow job. I'm thinking we might go for the full monty tonight, we'll see.

I opened her with horse girl. She had 5 female friends with her and they stood by and watched the whole thing audience style. I vibed with the friends a bit then went off to handle other stuff. I checked in with her again a bit later, and this girl was unusually witty and interesting. Tall, beautiful girl, works in the movie business, amazing sense of humor, very flirty but a total good girl. I did some heavy sexual sub-communication very early on that went like this.

"Hmm, I think you're not really the type to wear clear high heels and a stripper dress. I think you're more the type for black lingerie. You're a naughty girl with an overactive imagination, but you're also a classy kind of girl."

She liked that. I guess you could call it a sexual cold read. I love to do cold reads that relate to the sexual dichotomy of women. The good girl/bad girl tension.

Here is the theory behind it: All women have a horny pervert inside, but the world tells them to be a "good girl" and so they eventually become consumed by the inner conflict. They want to get fucked and be slutty SO BAD, but they're not allowed. Eventually they become sexually frustrated. You can be the valve that lets that pressure out. These girls are bubbling cauldrons of conflict and sexual energy. They spend a lot of energy trying to just hide how horny they are.

Anyway, I had taken her number and moved on. Called her. We met up. Second meeting was pretty textbook except I accidentally ended up on a dinner date. I don't know how I did that, but we ended up sitting across from each other in a nice restaurant a few blocks from my house. I said to myself "Wow you fucked up somewhere along the line," but the girl doesn't care. Dinner dates are still considered normal by women and if I keep the sexual sub-communication and attraction up, I don't have to worry about her thinking that I am a "courting" type of guy.

Got her back to my place, as it was only a few blocks away. Got her naked in bed. Then she panicked and wanted to go home. She told me she wanted to go home while I was in the midst of licking her pussy. Last minute resistance I figured. I had no idea she was a virgin. So I did a lot of push pull. "Yes! you've got to go right now!" Then touch her and suck on her titties so she felt too good to leave. I continued the push pull type stuff for about 30 minutes, then I sent her home. It was important that she left on my terms, not hers.

Next time we hung out, it was a very bad day in terms of sloppy planning on my part. I tried to take her to this amazing sculpture park near my house. It was closed. We sat in some ghetto boring park for a while, then got Chinese food and a movie. My DVD player was broken, my laptop was broken too. So we had to go to 3 different stores looking for VHS and we got this terrible 80s B movie called "Rappin'." We watched that and I did some excellent escalation. But again, once she got naked she panicked and wanted to go home. This time I knew something was up. I decided to come straight out with it and ask her "OK are you a virgin, a rape victim, or is something else wrong." (Notice you must never take last minute resistance personally. It never even occurred to me that she might be disinterested in me). She fessed up that she was a virgin. I was pretty floored by that since she's 23 years old. She seemed like a normal kind of girl. Not uptight, not a religious fanatic. Totally normal, nice girl.

So I had a long talk with her to try to figure out why she was a virgin at age 23. Was it by choice? Due to religion? Did her uncle touch her in her spot? What could it be? Turns out that in Texas there's a lot of religious guys. So she ended up dating these really great guys, but they were waiting for marriage. There were times she wanted to have sex but couldn't. She had never even touched a penis. We had a really nice talk about it. I told her I was a bad candidate for losing virginity, and since she was leaving to go back to Texas in a month it probably isn't gonna happen. Of course she agreed and that was that. Then I did some crazy dirty talk to her. I made her close her eyes and imagine a sexual scenario which I described in great detail. This went on for about 20 minutes. She was getting really turned on. I ended up whacking off and blowing a load on her, which was a totally new experience for her. It was very exciting to her I think.

After that I never called her. I meant what I said about not being the right guy for a virgin. But she called me and invited me to hang out. I couldn't make it but said we'd meet up soon. Again I never called her. Then Thursday night, she texted me that I was in her dream. I was in the middle of a lot of other stuff, but I decided to try and go to her place and see what happens.

I had just finished giving a seminar, and I was about to go out to the club and meet this fetish chick and Promo, the natural I've been studying lately. I'll get into that as a side note to this whole thing. I've mentioned Promo and the fetish girl in a bunch of my recent reports. This guy rolls with like 5-10 models everywhere he goes. Now he's hanging with celebs too. He had 2 major celeb party girls at his club a few days back. I mean REALLY big celebs, I won't name names here. Promo ended up in the bathroom with this celeb chick “LL” showing him her tits. I didn't know what was up with it, but the fetish girl hatched a plan to have a threesome with LL and hopefully turn her into our sex slave. She's a far out chick, but I'm all for it. So the plan for the night was to go give the seminar, then show up at the club and work on that. After I did the seminar and dealt with the virgin girl, I did meet up with them, but LL wasn't there. It turns out she only shows up when this other guy is there. Promo rolls with this guy Jaime who is a MEGA-natural. He's dated famous supermodels and now LL is chasing him. I will be working on studying this guy soon as well. All I know so far is that he's in a band and he has an English accent.


Anyway, back to the virgin girl... I get the text, I call her up. She's in bed. I tell her I'm coming over to tuck her in. She says ok, but she's not sure if I'm serious. I show up at her place and she lets me in. I get into bed with her, we talk, then escalation begins. I get her naked. This time there's nowhere to go, Haha. She can't say "I gotta go home," she is home. It takes very little prodding to get her naked. Something has changed. She has become more open to sex. But she's on the rag, so I leave her panties on. Now I've got a dilemma on my hands. I've already had sex with one girl that morning. I know I might be looking at a threesome later in the night. Should I waste load #2 of the day whacking it on this virgin chick? I'm gonna need that load later with the fetish girl and who knows what else. I decide not to spooge but I'll see how far I can take it otherwise. Sometimes if you get hard and fuck or get a blow job, then stop without coming, it results in you blowing a really big load later on. It sort of builds up. I tell the virgin girl "I gotta teach you one more thing before you go back to Texas." I really didn't think that would work, but it did, haha. She was laying on her back, I stuck my cock in her mouth and she started sucking it. Wow. I could not believe it. She was totally into it. I did the super gentle teacher style: "That's very good, now take it really slow. You're doing great. If you need to stop just let me know. I won't cum in your mouth, so just relax." She did excellent and was really enjoying it. A little toothy here and there, but what do you want from a virgin? It was a special moment. I looked out into the Manhattan skyline through her 20th floor window and just thought about how great life is.

Now I was thinking who cares about threesomes and celebrities, this was a great moment and I'm not gonna stop myself from blowing a load. This girl will always remember it and I want her to feel like she was a success in her first try. So I asked her where I should come, she said "Anywhere you want." I got her on her knees and blew a load in her mouth. She swallowed it all and was beautifully submissive throughout the entire event.

What a night, I sure didn't expect that. We hung out and talked for a while. I got the feeling she's looking to have sex for the first time ASAP, so I told her keep Monday night free. Now I'm feeling like if she calls we're gonna fuck for sure. If she flakes, it will be because she doesn't want to lose her virginity to a guy she doesn't know that well when she's gonna be leaving town very soon. Either way it's fine with me.

I headed out and met up with the fetish girl and Promo at the club. LL didn't show up, which is par for the course. There are so many times when you hear these people are gonna show and they don't. It's one of the ways that promoters create business for themselves. The bottom line is that LL is chasing this Jaime guy. If he's not there, she's not gonna show. She's hanging with my friend just to get to Jaime. It's just like what normal people do, ya know. Celebs think the same way. I had some serious sexual tension with a bunch of the fetish model chicks at the club. They all started making out and taking pictures with my camera. One chick took out her tits and had me hold them for a picture. Had a serious threesome vibe going on with the fetish girl and her friend, but I didn't pursue it that hard. I had to split early anyway and was kinda drained from the virgin chick. I split out early cause I had to leave town at 7am the next day.

I'm thinking that with this virgin chick there were many factors that led to success. Complete detachment from outcome. Patience. Combine that with massive sexual vibe, dirty talk, adventure, and solid game overall. It was also a matter of having the right instincts in the moment- she texted and I immediately seized on it to go to her place. I just gently pushed when I got there and everything went very smoothly. It's a matter of being open to the opportunities that are right in front of you sometimes.

I had another experience with a virgin like 2 days before that I'm going to post about tomorrow. I came up with a really crazy technique in this one I gotta tell you guys about.

These posts are sick, It's awesome to see a pick up artist at work. It really does come down to putting the girls mind in the right places for you to escalate and not giving a fuck what actually happens in the end. Learning a lot, thanks and keep it up!

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