It seems like I'm always good friends with a good amount of girls, but I can never get to that next step. I'm usually a pretty nice guy, can shit on people and tease them well and am sarcastic a lot, but I never close with girls and am a typical AFC. At parties, I've tried to break the touch barrier and have put my arm around their back when we are walking, but I usually don't get farther than that. Do I need to KINO more? How can I be that guy girls want to hook up with and not talk with?

Yes Kino more. Deep eye contact an be a bit dirty. Dont back down with the naughty talk and suggestions.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

any help on KINOing when you are with a girl (who you like) who is friends with you're friends (mostly girls and a few guys). Thats my sticking point, its much easier to meet them this way through mutual friends, but when you hang out together it feels awkward to KINO in front of other friends (who are really good friends)? Maybe not?

I knew an AFC, several actually, who thought they could just kino and they'd be good to go. But all that is to a girl is a guy with no game who is touching on them in a creepy way. I don't think your problem is with kino. I have a feeling it is with other aspects of your game. Probably your ability to convey confidence and build rapport and attraction.

Also, what types of kino do you do? When in groups you can do a type of playful roughhousing which doesn't look sexual, but it's very much physical. Pick her up and act like you are going to throw her whenever she says something silly or sarcastic. She'll scream and laugh. Do stuff like that. Trying to put your arm around her when all her friends are there and know you are just trying to mack on her is sometimes really awkward.

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