To start with i am the definition of AFC. But heres the story. I have been going to a class the past three nights, it was only 3 nights longs so it finished tonight. There was a girl in the class, HB8, day 1 I realized she was there. Night 2 I sat next to her initiating talk when we had breaks and so on. Went pretty good, I am cocky normally so I tried to bring in the humor to equalize that. I found out that night that she had a boyfriend. Night 3 we talked really good, tried the whole tic-tac-toe thing(might be cheezy to you all, but saw it somewhere. When your in a class draw a tic tac toe board on your paper and see if she'll play along with out actually saying anything). At the end I was planning on trying to get her number but got really sidetracked helping somebody. So I missed that opportunity, when I got home I added her on Facebook. So now how should I approach this? Like I said im not to good at all of this, and she lives 45mins away.

You just wanna be real calm about it. If I was you I'd comment on her pictures, say something kinda cocky/funny. For example, there was a pic of this girl and she had sunglasses on. She just happened to be indoors. I commented and said, why are you wearing sunglasses? Are you blind? I said it in a joking way obviously. Be careful with the cocky part, dont qualify yourself. But I'd start a conversation in the comments, then after a couple of replies between you and her, continue the conversation through messaging. Then after you've been talking for a bit just ask if she wants to text.

Invite her and her boyfriend out to some show/comedy club/event that you and a bunch of friends are going to. Try to make it something real in case she googles it, but this is mainly a shit test of sorts that you are giving her and you don't necessarily have to actually follow through with it. It's a way to test the waters to see how interested she is in you. More than likely she'll say no or will come up with an excuse not to go.

You're basically checking to see how willing she is to actually go out with you, but you are disqualifying yourself by acknowleging you have no sexual interest in her since you are also inviting the bf. You're just a fun guy hanging out with people--from her perspective. Ideally you want her to say yes, because then you'll know she is interested in you, especially if she says she can go but her boyfriend can't. If she says no outright, then you'll know this is probably going to be a tough nut to crack, and you may want to consider moving on.

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