ok basically, the girls my ex all went to shit, i then forgot bout her cause she refused to talk to me, cause i was a "dick" who couldnt be trusted ..... anyways she went off got a new bf etc, but after a couple weeks starts trying to talk to me on FB, so thats all fine but its kinda doin my head in having a FB friendship, so im thinking time to just ask to meet up, i was thinking something along the lines of
"hey [name], i haven't got much going on this weekend, so how bout i take you to the cinema and we watch a film. you game ?" any advice or suggestions on how i could improve this? , some are probably wandering why an earth do you want to anyway :L , suppose it would be a good opportunity to just judge things, look for IOI's etc.
also if she does say no [probably quite likely given the history :L] what should i say , just something like
"ok well i dont want to have a friendship online so your choice" ?
thanks in advance
Whistle

I never ask women just out of the blue. I wait till it gets to the point sh'es texting me 24-7 and obviously wants to met up.

Here's why: I will NEVER ask woman out more than once. If I ask any woman out and she gives me an excuse, even a legit one, I freeze her out and move on. A lot of times after a few days of dropping contact all of a sudden I'll start to get texts like, "so you're too good for me now?"

I know if she re-initiates contact, her excuse for no accepting my invitation was legit. 9/10 times I'll just move on to the next and give them "lets be friends" status.

cheers dlitghtmen yer i know what you mean, i usally do the same thing, this is slightly different cause i need to reassess the whole thing, as they say time heals all wounds or something :L, like wev said stuff like o yer we should do that,or yer you can come give me my birthday presie, etc so im guessing she might be slightly open to meeting, either way im gunna ask just want to get the best wording , cheers for the response.
Whistle