I have been reading pick-up and seduction content and tips for the last 5 days or so. I was eager to go out to the field.
So I go out last night, my wing had to bail, I said fuck it I'll go solo. I was a bit high but I decided not to drink.
I got to the bar and discovered it was dead there, so I walked back out. Two HB8's were on their way in when I got outside so I said to them "It's dead in there." "What?' they look at me weirdly. I tell them "There's nobody in there."
They roll their eyes at me and go in. Wow okay, just got my first rejection. This ain't that bad, I realize what it did wrong there (told them like I cared way too much), and can work towards fixing it.
I come back a couple hours later. The place is crowded now and a guy at the bar buys 3 girls a drink and tells them that it's from me. He tells me to go talk to them. I say sure dude. They leave as I just as I said that and I followed (probably a bad move). I talked them about this random guy and they laughed a bit but I didn't feel very confident.
Met an old friend, went back outside and walked to this club. As I'm walking an HB7 and and HB8 are walking in front of me. HB7 looks back at me looking and I'm looking right back. "Why are you walking alone?" she calls back to me. "Why are you checking me out?' I shout back smiling. I was closer now she looks back and says
"What's your name?" "
Ben. And you girls?"
"Katie and that''s gurtrude" She points to HB8.
"That's my great granmother's name." I knew she wasn't serious.
We talked and walked for a bit and I fell behind with HB8. She told me her real name was shawna, and asked what high school I graduated from. I told her she didn't know it, it was out of province. She caught up with her friends and I didn't talk to her too much more.
Got to the club, found some friends there (should have asked for a wingman).
I came up to 2 HB8 blondes and say to them: "So my friend thinks girls don't like
a man in a watch, I say they can. What's your opinon?"
One of them walks away immediately. The other one says she likes a man with a
watch if its a nice watch.
"Oh so you want me to spend $400 dollars on you?" I ask."
"Yeah about that"
I get a little closer up to her. "Why don't you wear a watch then?"
"I don't know"
"We'll both buy watches and be back here the same time tomorrow" I say.
She laughs but starts to walk away so I carry on.
Tried one more attempt, got rejected. I feel like I'm learning but I still really wanted to number close. I danced with my friends for a bit and went home.
I hope to go out again tomorrow with some tweaks and some lessons learned
I know I didn't do enough approaches, So I hope to get better and more confident.
What helps you talk to girls in a group? Good openers for it?
Any suggestions on how to improve my game would be greatly appreciated.
CHAT