Major sticking point: How to deal with 'two sets' properly



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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 01, 2012 1:24 pm 
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Any help appreciated on this chaps...

When I go out at night, I got out alone and talk to a lot of two sets, most of the time both girls are hot. I can engage both of them in a decent conversation without being entertaining and am a little bit seductive with both of them but am having trouble escalating and closing with one of them.

My problems are this:

1) I don't know how to know which (if either) of them are available - this is a big one for me as I don't feel I can say 'so which one of you is single' or as it will just look like I am out for any girl and neither will feel like they are 'special' to me. Sometimes one will naturally back off a little or one just seems more into me - so I think 'great' but when I try to number close, I get the 'I have a boyfriend' line, then I can't switch the other one or I look desperate - even though the other one may be single. So I just leave it there.

2) I don't feel I can escalate, or 'zone in' on one with without feeling like the other one is going to get bored/feel left out soon and want to move her friend on. So I try and keep them both engaged fairly equally.

Thanks for any input.

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Just go for the two, escalate, and see which one is more into you...
Make them compete for you!
(just made me think of the Clocwork Orange 2set pickup *grin*)

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 07, 2012 6:32 pm 
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i completely agree with the competing but id also recomend that you use the alienation principle on the girl you prefer while still using a balence of attention between the two set baring in mind that the attention is mostly tilited away from the target.


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I had the same fucking problem last night. I gave the most attention to the one I liked most, but the other one seemed more into me (or perhaps she claimed me, do women do that?). We went to a different bar. It was very full and everyone was dancing. At first, the girls were pretty close to me and my friends, but the one that I wanted was too far away to talk to, and I couldn't get closer because of the crowd. When I got distracted by my friends, the girls kind of drifted away. I guess they lost interest.

I suppose isolation is the key to more intimate stages of kino, but I still struggle with this. Any tips on how to isolation? And how are your experiences with simply going for it in two sets without proper isolation?

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bar or lounge.

I just go and say "hey whats up" with familiar look (assume we know each other)
then she act "umm nothing much, whats up with u or do I know u?"
I say "seriously? nuhhh... I'm just trying to get know to you" then give my hand and
introduce my self until she shakes it !

then dont let her hand go and talk whatever in ur mind !

after few seconds I say "wow ur friends looks like they hate me, haha dont mind them"
after that 2nd girl will try to crush u or interupt u... u tell that girl

"come on! I like her and we're just gettin to know each other. dont be THAT GIRL!"
or some times i could pull this off
"hey becareful ... or we're not gonna invite you to our wedding!"

thats how I disarm the other girls and build massive attraction. this works wonder for my game.

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In the beginning stages you should be engaging both girls, so you'll have the option to target in on one later on if need be. You can mention that you're single and see if they tell you their status, but don't ask if they have boyfriends. Asking "When was your last relationship" is a good feeler question too.

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