So I've had a few experiences where LMR have sabotaged my chances at sex.

At tips, ways around this? Anything will do!

Cheers,
Ninja

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Ahhh...a fellow ninja, eh?

It typically helps if you provide a little situational background on what happened, but there are of course general pointers you can follow.

On a fundamental biological level the girl needs to know you will be there for her after the sex is over. You can convey this to her by telling her that you find her special, intriguing, and addicting.

But I've found that more often than not, LMR comes from some specific circumstantial factor (which is why a background on your circumstance would help). Maybe she's a virgin. Maybe she has a boyfriend. Maybe she doesn't want you or others to think she's easy (ASD). If you can find out what her specific reason is, you can then target that and destroy it.

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I know what happened... first time was escalating way too fast on first date, she was a little unnerved by it. Second time was that we were stupidly tired after a night out and afterparty. Suppose it's pretty easy too see why LMR showed up

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Step one is identify the problem. Step two is fixing it.

Those are easy to identify, like you said. You didn't establish trust and comfort before escalating and attempting to close. And the other time was not really logistically possible because it got too late and you both weren't willing to make it happen.

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