Ok long story short I have been with this girl for a 1.5+years used to tell me everything. She would do anything for me on a dime. We used to chill a lot more now we just video chat at night and see each when have days off. Recently we both started new job and timing is a little off.

I have conf call for work at 10 pm and I have noticed for the past two weeks I a trend she'll just dissappear normally she would text me almost every hour but now she'll just text me "I love you" and dissapear for hours. I don't call or text first ever(95%). I called her out ones last week when she wanted to talk and then she just left came back at 1015 when I am on my conf call. After I got off I expressed the fact that I was upset with her for not letting me know what she was doing then trying to reach me when I am working. I was like "just let me know" and don't expect me to be there when ur ready to talk. (As I write this out it seem like a common thing).


She apologize and told me everything for a day or two. Same shit this week though and on the same days. Basically my brain is noticing a pattern I can't recall exactly I may overthinking this stuff. She just hasn't dissappeared for so long ever like today 11am text "I love you" nothing till now 8:45PM. I can almost positivily say that she will try to contact me at 10:15 again. Or at the least I will find her online somewhere(gmail or facebook) by that time becuase she stays with her parents and they like her home by 10.Than she'll msg me something like let me know when ur call is done. (this seem so stupid) I can believe this is bothering me so much.
Yesterday she msg me around 6 then again got back around 10:15? There is pattern in the time and the days(days which she either doesn't have work the next day or doesn't have work till after noon)


I started the relationship as a PIMP now i feel like I am going AFC which is making insecure.

But i am just wondering I can't refute the fact that there are some sign of something thats wrong. I am sure there someone out there who has felt this way.

Any thoughts? help ? should I see my way out of this?

Relax..... please. Her not texting you and whatnot exactly when you expert her to does not make you AFC - you reacting to it Does