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I know this isn't actually a day 2 thing, more like a 6 or 7 but its the situation of getting to actual dates. So here's the story: I met her through a friend of mine. We are both in school and her apt was kinda baron and didn't really have anything. And us as a group were talking and mentioning football and what not, and she said she wished you could watch some football. Well I live pretty close to her and offered her to be able to come over and watch whenever. She asked for my number and I gave it (at this point I wasn't actually trying to pick her up, because I was at her house with one of my FWB's, because she "hooks her up with green"). Well later that night (Thursday) she texted me and we txtd for about 2 hours, then she invited me over for a "Cig" break. We spent 6 hours just talking about everything! Then Fri day we txtd pretty frequently and hung out the same way on Fri. After Thurs night, I knew I wanted this girl. She went home for sat and sun, but over the weekend I was able to raise sexual tension and get it to a "date" path. It went perfectly. She even said "I knew within 20 mins of meeting you that you would be great in bed." She said she would like to come over and make dinner and have fun. Over the weekend in some texts we talked about different sexual things we were good at, and I also said I was great at massages. On her way home she said "we might have to work out a deal, cuz im in desperate need of a massage" me: "I'll give you such a good massage that you'll be drooling all over my pillow." I said it like that, cuz it made me look confident and funny, but also established that I wanted her in my bed. She came over, dressed very cute and sexy, we hung out for 3 hrs. and then I offered her a massage, after I'd been kinda rubbing her feet and petting her. Next progressed to me giving her a great massage. During it she laughed and I asked why thinking I tickled her; but she replied that she was lying in her own drool. Soon after as I was really working it, she said "Marry Me" I stopped laughing and said what!? She said "OMG did I really just say that out loud?" Then we had great awesome sex. Next day we texted and it was going pretty good, and we kinda made tentative plans to hang out on that night (monday)...but she ended up as she said "sleeping through her review" and couldn't hang out because she needed to catch up, but maybe tomorrow. Here's the situation as it is now. The texting quality and frequency have gone down and I'm at a stage of IDK what to really do. I have been dating for awhile and have been having lots of fun. This girl is someone I want to date and transition her into my girlfriend.
Possibly she really is busy. Have you two been hanging out less after sex? She could have really just wanted you for one night. Building up all that sexual tension in such a short time isn't something you would do with a relationship in most cases, but a FWB or one night stand.
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