So I've tried many of the openers I've seen on here. Some that I do in real life, and taking time to read the girls profile and try to incorporate from the info she gave me. All have had mediocre success and I don't like wasting too much time reading a girls profile for her to never respond. I have put this together from my experience with women from online dating. I have this to some of my friends and the response % is very high. So I would like for you guys to try it, tweak it, and let me know how it works for you





Hmmm the perfect first message to get the cute girl to respond. Well it could be about your looks and compliment you, but that has been done a million times. I could be mean in hopes of sparking your attention but that is risky. Theres always me talking about your hobbies and make it seem as if I'm into the same things but thats really try hard.

I got it! You can only pick one....snickers, Ice cream, or skittles? [/code]

Hah, I like it. Very original, you could even tweak the answers with different things to pull some info out of her personality. Kudos.

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Thanks man. I like it cause it shows some real personality. To me it says look, I get it, you get flooded with messages and I'm taking time to show you I'm different even though I copy and paste

Post your experiences on here

Or you guys can keep telling them to remove their picture from their profile. You get responses, then it goes no where.

Seriously be creative and use this. I sent 20 messages, got 12 replies,5 numbers, and 2 fc's the first day I met the girls .

dude this opener get the best results i've seen. well done!

I haven't tried it yet, but I can tell how effective this opener can be

will give it a try asap

This a the "M&M's, Skittles, or Strawberries" opener with a little fluff added. The fluff is not even needed IMO because they completely forget that stuff when you challenge them to think and choose.

The original opener is: (Also called the Apocolypse opener)
"Serious question...You can only choose one, no cheating! M&M's, Skittles, or Strawberries?"

Be careful using this opener if your area is saturated with PUA/AFC because it is over played and you may get called on it.

Peace...

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WOW... im new to the internet dating thing and this opener is awesome! gets so many responses so quick.. i changed mine slightly...

so here I am trying to think of the perfect first message to get a pretty girl like you to respond. Well I could talk about your looks and compliment you on them...but that has been done a million times.... I could be mean in hopes of sparking your attention but that is risky and I'd like to get to know you... There is always me talking about your hobbies and make it seem as if I'm into the same things but thats really try hard.... and I prefer to be original..

I got it! You can only pick one....Nutella, Ice cream, or skittles?

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i would say just ignore her

till now i tried this 3 times, 2 opened and one still pending (i sent it this morning, I will give it some time)

one of the 2 that opened seems to be interested in chatting with me, she even sent me her number without me asking. i will arrange a date with her with in 2 days


peace,

Anti-game game basically. Might even try this in real life while obviously sounding like Will Smith in Hitch

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i like the idea

I rewrote this opener to suit me and feel more like me, the result I got till now:

I used it 3 times;
Two opened same day, almost same moment, both positive response, one is HB8.5 the other HB8;
I asked the HB8.5 if she has Kakao, you need the person's number or user name ID, she gave me her number;
We are having nice instant messages through Kakao, lots of jokes and interesting conversations;
Yesterday I set up a date with her for tomorrow, she seems eager about it;
We haven't spoken on the phone yet, but am planning to call her tomorrow in the afternoon for a small chat and making sure we meet later at night;
Second one stopped messaging after few messages;
Third one haven't answered yet, I messaged her yesterday, will wait till end of the day before deciding that she ignored;



2/3 opened is not bad, need to test more to know really how good this opener is; someone on facebook suggested that this can be used as real life opener, might try this weekend.

Peace,

Thanks guys for all the feedback and really giving this opener a shot. I haven't been on here in a while as I've been very busy with my current girlfriend. Of course I met her from online dating using this opener! She is an hb 8 and really the girl of my dreams. I'm very happy to see it working for you guys too.

I have actually used this in real life and I can't think of any bad responses. The key being calm and delivering the opener slowly so it conveys your value.

Oh and if they don't respond you can either move on or just mess with her, ie. telling her that you understand if she has trouble dealing with choices and your ex gf was always very indecisive as well.

Have fun and keep posting results. Cheers

So you got a girl to reply to the opener and she gives you a one word reply( ex: M&Ms)

Where do you go from here?

Do you make up a statement based on her answer to create some interest or transition to something from her profile?

Well I would say to show her some indifference. Challenge her on her answer. Most guys agree with the girl in hopes to forming some kind of "bond". I would also tell her something like "yeah, after looking at your pics a little more, you do seem like a peanut m & m kind of girl " its a cold read and she will wonder what you mean by that. Have fun. Neither of you two are invested and you have to be willing to lose the girl. This will help you also to transition to a dhv story in which you can say she looks like your friend sarah who loves eating peanut m & m's. See just having fun and being cocky funny.

I personally hate when they give you one word responses after you send them a long well thought out opening message. She could just be very boring or not very confident in herself. So try doing what I suggested and if it doesn't work, theres only 3 billion more to go.

Cheers my friend.