I really need to do this. Starting from tonight I'm going to stop. I quit porn (except for about once a week), and even that really increased my game, so I need to know what this will do for me.

Today I done some art instead of fapping, and it made me feel better about myself and my path through life like I was progressing. Which is something girls will be receptive to in itself.

After fapping I always fall asleep as well, so end up wasting about 2 hours of my day and feel groggy after.

Have never seen a community having so hard not to masturbate. Yet we are the ones who isn´t supposed to need it

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No matter what, I must live without regret

Life is good

Live it for yourself

totally agree

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"..just give her an excuse"

I'm about 5-7~ days deep in this and I haven't fapped. Weird part is I went to a strip club twice for like two - three hours with my friends and wasn't even interested no boners even. I WASN'T INTERESTED!! I kept thinking things like: ''I wonder how she ended up being a stripper?'' or ''I bet this one drives a Neon.''. I haven't taken the time to make any approaches but I feel way less awkward around girls and more relaxed. What I needed.

PS: Voice do actually get deeper, trippy trippy trippy

Quick tips:

-Avoid strip clubs.

-If you get the urge to fap do something else, play a game, take a walk, read anything..

double post, yay.

Just fapped, honestly fapping once a week would be enough for me. I started getting pimple back. I've talked to not so hot looking girls when I stopped fapping.

What I learned:

fapping a lot makes you become picky.

Not fapping drops your standards, balance it out

Starting the diet as of today! Just made a huge step of deleting my 90GB collection lol...... Good luck future casanovas. haha

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i havent fappd about 2 weeks max few times in last 8-9 years- seems I had serious problem as I am only 21
However now as I saw that article, I have found more power to resist, thank you thank you thank you

Do some of you guys use your brain?

I'm not referring to all of you (some of you seem very bright!), but c'mon! Ok, I'm not a genius either but let's analyze this a bit.

No Fap/porn = Random attention? How?

The only thing that makes sense to me is that your sex drive goes up. You then find small non-verbal ways to express to girls that you are in need of sexual release in typical social gatherings or whatever. They see this and in their own way give IOI's. Funny thing is, if you were doing these non-verbal queues from the get-go, you might have had the same reaction from them.

Stars and planets don't suddenly align when we don't fap or look at porn. Let's not escalate this and just keep it practical eh?

I can totally relate. After Fapping, I feel like I wasted time (Nothing to show for it except a mess) AND I feel a little physically spent. Even before I saw this post, I decided to spend the next two weeks abstaining from fapping and porn.

I suggest complete abstinence for porn on your part. The only reason I say this is because it only takes a little porn and we're back to our usual fapping days. We don't want that!

2 weeks and still going! adding on to a month and I will go night gaming to see the results. all the best to you all...

Just occupy yourselves and you will not think about it

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Confidence is the key

i have been fapping since i was 13-14, now i'm 17.I've read this article about 2 months ago, i tried once, lasted 2 weeks, now i have almost a month without fapping.

this is true. There are studies showing that no masturbation can raise testosterone levels after 4 days of no activity

Alot of studies with different positive and negative results sadly, you can't be absolutelly sure if this works.
You may want to raise testosterone by other means. (Heavy exercising, food etc.)

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LIFE IS A FUNNY MOTHARFUCKUR. ;3

whatever...
I have strong doubts about this. But I still have no success and nothing else has worked. I guess I'll give it a try.

day. 1. I just jacked off to crazy ass porn. Prior to this I was at a party and got shot down by EVERY girl i talked to. I feel like shit. I crashed said party. Prior to party I was online talking to girls and got suicidally depressed to a point where I forced myself to leave the house. I'd been talking to a canadian chick [I live in detroit... north of canadia]. I REALLY fucking like this chick and she likes me too. But she's about to go away for school and she lives across the border. So it causes issues. I jacked off and tried not to think of her. She also said she's end up very depressed if we have sex but kinda insinuates that it's going to happen if I want it to when we see each other. This is where the part where I REALLY fucking like her comes in. I don't want her depressed and upset, so when I see her I'll try my hardest to abstain from sex, which marks her as nothing. Just someone I care too much about.

Then there were two other girls. One I struck out with and cut contact with cause she said "let's just be friends." Fuck that. I'm 29 and I'm fucking tired of that shit. Fuck being friends. Then another is being a bitch. We started off talking sexually then she got sick with a fever and got pissed I was still talking sexually. Fuck her, she lacks empathy.

So I have Canadian girl I care too much about to sleep with. Text removed by moderator for violation of the forum rules.

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No fap is also great if you have some weird fetish that you want to get rid of... Trust me I know. But the downside is... If you fapped a few times... Went out.. Brought a girl home.. You can last up to an hour.... But if you haven't fapped for 14 days and you get a stiff from a strong breeze... Think how long you last then... I mean sure it would be an amazing 8 seconds but... Really. Think about it.

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It's time to nut-up or shut up.