Look, i have basically no trouble talking to girls i am not attracted to, but with once there is a girl who meets my standards whose closeby i suddenly get all nervous. This does kinda f*** me over, because i am not able to enjoy a comfortable, relaxed and confident conversation with her and i always run out of things to say so i can keep her interested. Anyone got anything on this matter? I will happily take your help.

Pretend that they are ugly. Have your brain knock them off the pedestal you have pre-planed perching them on.

Hot girls deserve no more attention then any other female. In fact giving them less glorified attention than a the rest of the tools hitting on them will make YOU the standout!

Next time you get a preconceived Barbie notion in your head about one, picture her sitting on the crapper changing her tampon...that will put the real in it for you pal!

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I can totally relate tho. I went to my dermatologist and the nurse was this smokin hot blonde, hb9, with big blue eyes. And she was sitting there right in front of me giving me a consultation. I totally AFC'd out. I couldn't look her in the eyes because I literally wanted to just lean forward and kiss her right on the lips! Because how often do we have hotties that close to us giving us their full attention? It was then that I realized I had some serious eye contact issues, because it was really hard for me to be confident and keep her gaze. I bet that girl would still look gorgeous taking a big ol' shit, so I don't think Mr. Jablowme's suggestion will work in that instance.

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I get what your saying, two years ago riding through Kissimmee Florida, I was in Daytona for Bike Week, I found myself in a Hooter's having lunch with the Bro's. Our waitress had jet black hair, and the deepest blue eyes I had ever seen. She was working two jobs her other? Playing the part of Princess Jasmine at Disney!! I was completely lost, I was mesmerized by her striking beauty!

I had no idea what the fuck to say!!

I was able to break the spell by wadding up napkins, and "accidently" dropping them on the floor for her to bend over and pick up, thus entertaining my cohorts!

She caught on to this after a while, shot me a knowing grin and a wink!

But believe me...even she has has a BF that's is likely sick of putting up with her crap! LOL!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.