GF of 10 months.

She Works 3 jobs, I see her anywhere from 1-3 times a week. Usually twice.

Whenever we had seen each other we almost always have sex and it is almost always hot and she cums huge.

However last time we had sex (two Sundays ago) it was a quick wham bam kind of thing because she had already made plans to see her girlfriend for brunch at 930AM. We had sex around 9am, but it was rushed, and she was making it seem like an inconvenience for her which I didn't really care for and it showed. I came but she did not. Normally I would have gone down on her, done more foreplay but it was first thing in the morning and neither of us had showered.

I had mentioned the night before that I was going over to a buddy's house that Sunday morning to watch football but didn't say what time exactly. She got up early at 8 to watch tv whereas I wanted to sleep in a bit. Which I did. During this time is when she made the plans to meet her friend for brunch at 930.

Anyway the last time I saw her was a week ago. She denied sex on that day saying her Aunt was in town (period) which I'm iffy on. Even if she was, that has rarely stopped us in the past.

I didn't make a big thing of it but the next day asked her via text if the only reason for no sex was due to her period and she said yes and asked why.

I told her that lately it didn't seem like she was into it and that also she never sends flirty/playful/dirty texts anymore, which she used to do all the time.

She replied by saying that I've been putting too much emphasis on sex lately and that the last time we did it that I made her feel like she owed it to me. I replied that was not the case, she did not owe me, but I was not happy with the fact that she was making it very rushed to where there was not even making out really.

Any time I've brought up anything remotely sexual over the past couple weeks, she hasn't responded to it. It's like something has changed.

This can't be a good sign.

Any thoughts?

Let me know if I need to include any other info.

Thanks guys.

Do you go out and have fun with her? do you make her laugh? i think you might have made her feel cheap by doing what you did.... theres alot more then just sex... its important... but theres more to it bro... do something sweet for her... make her feel loved and appreciated.. i know its easy to get caught up in that alpha male shit but they need the tenderness balanced with the alpha part when we're talkin about long term relationships.

Also talk to her and get it out of her whats wrong.... communication is very important..... and dont forget to do things that DHV... dont get lazy in the relationship.

Good luck

Call her, set up a date, talk it over.

Say that if you made her feel bad, it wasn't your intention. Good communication is key.

Thanks for the reply man. Yes, we do go out and have fun and I do make her laugh when we hang out, problem is that we haven't seen each much in the past few weeks. But you are right, I think the alpha thing can go overboard at times especially with a LTR.

I will be asking her about this tomorrow when I see her, didn't want to imply that I wasn't going to, just wanted to get some additional insight. I'll let ya know how it goes.

everyone has a vulnerability, even alphas. that attracts women because that vulnerability is a woman's way of connecting with you emotionally. Constantly trying to alpha your chick is kind of a turnoff because then you start to come off as an asshole. but damn dude your girl works hard..3 jobs? what a fucking trooper. Honestly, do something nice for her and show your appreciation for how hard she works. Women are people too.

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She does work a ton but she likes it. One of her jobs is as a server at her friend's restaurant and she gets to socialize and have fun at it. Her main job is a M-F day gig. And her third job is cake, just for 6 hours working as a receptionist during the day on Saturday.

That has been part of the problem though, she essentially has chosen to work so much and then in any free time she has had lately she's hung out with her friends (she does not invite me out hardly ever with her friends). I've brought this stuff up in the past but tomorrow it will be a deal breaker type scenario.

Well, truth is she feels used and that sex is very important part in your life. try setting up a hot date , something romantic . Hot tub with flowers in it > Massages ( tell her she deserve it cause she has been working whole weekend . Or you can cook her dinner . best thing used all of above

Well its great that you felt comfortable bringing it up with her, communication is so crucial.
Sounds like for the minimal time you get to see each other you guys just have a sexual relationship.
I read this great article about how men need sex to feel loved while women need emotional connection to feel loved and want sex.
Probably a good idea just to spend time doing other things you both enjoy that helps your relationship become more satisfying for both of you.

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