Im coming here cause i cant really think of anything.. so, there is this girl i like, we go to the same college, just different careers and ive been trying to start talking to her but
1- i barely see her. 2- i cant approach her cause i NEVER see her alone, she is always with her group of girlfriends 3- nobody can introduce me to her cause we aint got no mutual friend, and so on...
i just found her on facebook, but i aint gon holla thru that cause she gon think i dont have the balls to open in real life... if i saw her alone, i would def approach, but ive been waiting for that momment for months and its just not workin lol what yall think? no dissing approaching the group is not an option tho

If approaching the group is not an option, she is never alone, and you have no mutual friends....well I am afraid you are properly fucked. it does beg the question...why is approaching the group not an option?

For example, what prevents you from simply walking up to the group, engaging one of the girls that is not her, and saying "Hi, I think your friend is adorable, would you mind if I stole her away from you for a few minutes?"

well, I said it was not an option cause I've never done it before, never seen it before, so I dont know how to it and I didnt want to start experimenting on her cause I really like her.. but what u just said is a good idea tho I'll probably use it, thanks!

That wont work. You need flawless body language to pull that off.

I suggest going with something simple. Do not stalk her like a weirdo. Hopefully she hasnt sensed you doing that or you have chance. What you can do is, if you are walking around campus and you run into her and you both get eye contact act surprise and then say "hey you're from bla bla." then ask her whatever relevent tO that class you were both in, then bring up something funny about. Acknowledge her friends, try tO engage the entire group in a fun convo, then when you find an opening find a way to isolate her or somehow temporarily join the group to eventually isolate her

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This is really scary, because i am in the exact same situation.

I've just recently gotten interested in this whole PU-thing and i've read both "How to become an alpha male" and "double your dating". After reading both I've started to work on my inner self, and i am already feeling alot more confident and self secure.
Still i don't have the balls to just walk up and talk to this girl, for example on Friday after class i went to the buss station. After a couple of minutes she came and sat down it was a golden oppurtinty as she was all alone, now i kept my posture and i displayed a confident and good body language and i was thinking about approaching, but every single part of my body was screaming "don't make a fool of yourself" to me and i bottled it. After a couple of minutes she puts on her headset and then i definetely knew i was not going to interrupt her.

Would you more experienced guys say i now have no chance whatsoever with her after bottling it like that or do I still stand a chance?

Nothing happend,you can do whatever the fuck you want with her..still.

And a tip for you guys in this thread:BE A FUCKING MAN and STOP thinking too much about the woman! Who the fuck cares if she think you're a loser? I fucking don't!Just game her and see what's up you'll never know if you won't try will you!? I prefer to try and get blasted a 109024027 times than just sit there like a rapist staring at her and be too damn scared to TALK TO A LIVING CREATURE like it's going to kill you! You will regret everytime for the rest of your live's if you won't try so try! It's not like you're earning something if your not making yourself looking like a fool infront of her cause she DOSEN'T EVEN KNOW WHO YOU ARE UNTIL YOU TALK!

I'm sorry for the nutbag comment above...It's just driving me crazy reading shit like that.

If you are a man-act like one...Otherwise,you'll look like a fool.

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Thanks man, seriously i really needed that!
Now just a thing, i'm defo approaching next time i catch her, would it be too forward too ask for phone number in the first conversation?

You have to define your own style... because what fits for me probably won't for you...

What I would do, if she is a person that I see often... I'll create some situation where she probably will have to give eye contact to me...

One thing could be walking towards the group as if I was looking for something that is behind them... then once I'm very close to the group I'll look over them and put a face of:"dammed it isn't here". Then slowly turn to her, give eye contact, smile, say hi and walk away.

Next time I see her, I'll walk close and see if she gives eye contact, if she does, smile again and say: "hi, how are you?"
if she doesn't reply the eye contact or the "how are you?" Most probably is because she doesn't want to meet me, so I left her alone.
If she replies I'll take it to:"I've seen you a couple of times and always wanted to meet you but I never had the chance, I'm ...."

But again that works for me because I'm a short, sweet, cute, easy going, fun guy.

I do not see myself pulling out the: "Hi, I think your friend is adorable, would you mind if I stole her away from you for a few minutes?" to a group of strangers without ending up as a jerk.

Dude, in this Game thing you've gotta be willing to experiment! and most of all if you feel like a newbo.

Don't wait for a fool proof formula for getting that one girl.

In the long run it's more benefical for you to just let go of your fear to fuck it up and GO!

No matter how bad you want her, making mistakes is something you're expected to do.. Mistakes give you knowledge, make you learn, and most important of all, they help you get rid of AA..

I'd say you have to follow the advice you're given even dude. Learn to fail even with the one girl you like the most.

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I agree with going out and experiment by yourself, see what works and what doesn't... And it is stupid to thing that there is fool proof formula to get any girl at any time and never face rejection...

Yet this is a forum where we can post questions, share our experiences and give our opinions on how we would tackle certain scenarios. Persons who post questions are usually stuck and do not know how to handle it and take actions... The purpose of reading others recommendations is not to follow them by heart as a fool proof formula, the purpose is to unstuck them, show that they are not alone in the world and that there are more people with these problems, and reading about how others would solve the problem helps to unstuck them and give them ideas on how to act.

No, it would not be too forward. Ask for her phone number, ask for a date, shit ask her to get a cup of coffee with you at the next stop.

Some may not agree with me, but I don't feel anything is to forward. If you ever feel like something you wish to try may be to forward, read a little about the apocalypse opener.

^^ THAT^^

Listen to this guy..He's solid.

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Thank you all! I agree with Worldrunner and BassOpens, I have to define my own style, gotta create the situation and do things my way and see what works for me and my personality, cause there is no formula

Now I've opened my mind knowing how yall would act in this situation! I had a mental block cause it's the first time I find myself in this situation where I dont have another choice but approaching

Next time I see her, I'll see if I can approach the group, or get create the situation, I dont see myself saying Hello, I think you friend is adorable, would you mind if I stole her for a sec. but your Idea WorldRunner Hi, how are you? if she replies, I could say that Ive seen her a couple of times but never had the chance to meet her, I think thats a good idea, simple and effective
So, lets make mistakes!

"So, lets make mistakes!"

You'll be aight man..

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Mistakes is what it is all about. Only way to learn. I hope it works out for ya. Let us know how it goes. While I don't agree that your body language would have to be flawless to go my route. It does need a high degree of confidence in one self. So do what feels comfortable for you. The more comfortable you are, the better your chances at success.

Cheers and keep us posted.