alright, so in the field report section, i was talking about my perfect pickup of this one girl, i won't describe exactely what happened, but it flopped.

but now i have a serious problem.

there was this one girl i kind of liked, but not really. and she is a very violent girl. but anyways she asked me if i liked her, and i said yes... but i didn't mean like i love her... well that's what she thought i meant, and she started telling me how she loves me. i didn't know she meant relationship wise, just friend wise. anyways she asked if we were dating and i said, "uhh, let's just wait till next time we meet before i answer that." but then she asked again the next day and i said yes. it wasn't a big deal i guess... well at least not yet.

she started saying how she wants to be with me forever, and how she has NEVER had a boyfriend, and how she felt like the happiest girl in the world.

shit, i was fucked.

so anyways i said, "i don't really like you in that way," and after i told my dad that, HE FUCKING FLIPPED. he started saying, "what the hell is your problem," and, "any pussy is good pussy."

he is a ladies man, but he doesn't understand i am a quality ladies man.

but that's not all, i then said i would start going out with her, and she was happy. but now, she told her mom, who feels so happy that she finally has a guy.

and now i am fucking screwed, seriously, the longest i can be in a relationship is 3 weeks,AT THE MOST!!! and she wants to be with me forever, jesus christ, i still in high school, i don't want to commit to some girl i don't like.

and i think i will hurt her more if i lead her on for 3 weeks, and i still have a chance to turn back.

so what is my plan?

well when this happens to most guys, PUA's just say, "act AFC, and she will eventually not like you."

bullcrap, if you think about it, you will just give her more attention, and she will like this. most girls won't, but the needy ones like the one in my story will only feed off of that. so what i am gonna do is be all quiet. by this i mean, whenever i text her i will only give her one word answers, or if she says, "we should meet up," i will say, "busy," or something. or if she says, "what are you doing?" you should say, "ya." and i will keep on doing this. Also, if it takes any longer, when she try's to kiss me or touch me, i will just say, " i don't like PDA's." or say, "i don't ever kiss in my relationships."

then when she asks what is wrong, just say, "i don't know, i don't feel a connection with you any more." or say, "this relationship is pushing my boundaries, and i don't like that."

hopefully she will take this, and it will be the SMOOTHEST dumping of a needy girl you have ever had.

i am currently trying this method out, and i hope it will work. i will update you guys.

Delete her from your phone and cut yourself off from any other form of contact. If she knows where you live then your in for it. Just cut her out and nevr tell her its over, she will eventually assume of the time apart will make her feel less enthused about you.

If she knows where you live just tell her it's over, grow some balls and stop carin what her mum might think, tell her she only interests you on a friendly basis and if she cant handle that but your sorry she'll just have to drift out of your life.

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What a title!

wow, that is the best advice i have heard. she doesn't know where i live, thank god. but she does know my friends. i will try what you said though.

There are more than enough girls out there than to worry about one single girl.

When people say, "No matter how good you are, there is always someone better." the same can be said for girls.

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hahah sorry i stopped reading and was like . . wtf?! we got ur dad coming in and her mom and fucking this girl that girl daaammnnnnnnnn fucking just stop talking to her hahaha

is she younger then you? it seems like younger girls act this way for older dudes . . . .i know this one girl who is 17 and she is "dating" a 24 year old dude and she is constantly telling me how much she loves him and all this shit . . i was like ur 17 . . .enough said hahah

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LOL This has been a fun read. Yeah buddy your going to have to face her at some point so you might as well be honest. Otherwise your going to be worse off.

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she is older than me, but i am her first boyfriend, that is why she is so crazy.

anyways i have been ignoring her for the last two hours and she already assumes its over.

Don't be a jerk! Basically tell her the truth. You like her but definitely not on the level with how she likes you. Just because your are training to be a PUA doesn't mean you should act like a jerk.

dude you need to just tell her

Now I'm not an expert PUA but I am an expert on needy women - I was married to one for 12 odd years. No amount of running yourself down, or running her down is going to do the trick because she will cling onto the notion that she can change herself or change you. You've got deliver a very emphatic "no" and stamp ruthlessly on any backdoor she tries to leave in place like "maybe we can try just being casual for a bit longer and see how it goes" or whatever. The fallout from family and friends is never as bad in reality as you think its going to be so just bite the bullet.

You need tell her that your not ready to settle for just one girl yet (i.e. the truth). If this works for me at over 40 itl work for you no problem .

lol, he dosent need to tell her shit. Stop lieing to him, if she cant contact him that means she stupid enough to put herself up for a cut-off. It'll teach her a lesson so the next guy wont get the same oppurtunity. Be a jerk, it makes your life a whole lot less complex. I've cut someone off before it worked really well, she was angry as hell but what was she going to do? she didnt know how to reach me.

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What a title!

Get married, have lots of babies. And never, ever look at another woman in the eye, ever again.

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Why are you telling her things just to pacify her? Dude, just be fucking straight up and tell her. HAVE SOME BALLS for goodness sakes. That's what being a PUA is about. Having the inner game to tell them things exactly like this.

I agree with The Wild One here, you have to face her and be honest. However don't be honest in an AFC way, Don't just dump her for yourself. Dump her for her, Does she really want to be with one man who doesn't love her her entire life?

Think I've read it somewhere on this forum, the best way to end a relationship is to tell her you don't have feelings for her (anymore). Although I havn't been able to test this, Like you I don't last that long in relationships

all pussy is good pussy, just some is better than other

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