Maybe she actually likes you and doesn't see you as the hook up material like she did with the other guys so she wants to take it slow with you, and not look like a joke to you

Why is it always important to have sex? Why don't you spend time trying to get to know her!

That's what I've been thinking.

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Let me tell you something, if you don't f-close her some other guy will. You are definitely playing the nice guy role and if you don't do something about it soon, you might end up getting friend-zoned.

Ok, since you're probably a virgin, here is something you should think about doing to escalate. Next time you're with her (in bed or somewhere you can fuck) begin kissing her, then slowly kiss her neck, go for the ears, keep going down AND LET YOUR MALE INSTINCTS KICK IN~!!!!

haha. If for some reason it's not kicking in, just go down on her tits, fondle them, play with them. Hell bite her neck (not too hard), be creative. There's no real wrong way of doing it. Just make sure you're doing this without hesitation and watch her get aroused. By going slowly, each step is a small test to see how far you can go. Since you've already fingered her I'm sure you can f-close. Just read up on LMR & ASD and you should be able to f-close. Be confident in your every move. Make sure you have a condom in hand and enjoy the ride. Good luck.

Why do we have to separate the two? I'll have sex with her and get to know her.

I only want 3 things in a relationship: Love, Respect and Sex! Without any of those it is just not worth my efforts and time into developing it into a relationship.

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I´m your age and in just this month I´ve fucked two virgins (I´m assuming you broad is because otherwise she would have escalated on you). What you need to be doing is leading and escalating.

You said it yourself that the reason nothing had happend was because you hadn´t tried anything more than fingering. This means that you have gotten all you´ve shot for. Next time you are fingering her, tell her to remove all her clothes and then you do so to. Then you just have sex with her. I recommend keeping eye contact so you´ll notice if she doesn´t want to do anything.

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Life is good

Live it for yourself

AGREE!!!

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I will see her this Friday night. I will see what I can do.

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Honestly if your in bed with her and you guys had a conversation about sex, make sure you have some condoms handy. Start kissing her, work down to her neck and suck on it like your trying to suck out blood, rub on her tits while your doing it, and when you get a boner just whip it out and lay it on her. Then you can play the safe route like I always do and get her consent I usually whisper in her ear "Do you wanna fuck?" Then I look into her eyes after. She may say no at first if shes nervous or wants to test you so be ready to counter it or keep foreplaying till she decides to go through with it.

P.S. Make sure when you whip it out make sure shes distracted while you do it keep kissing her while you pull it out so you can surprise her. I suggest grabbing her hand and putting it on your cock should definitly wlrk.

his girl got in bed with him for the first time and didn't immediately wrap her mouth around his dick, aslong as he doesn't get himself friend zoned then she sounds a good one in my book

If a girl lets me fuck her on the first opportunity then i lose interest her

you would be surprised on what high school girls do now a days.

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How can I get friend Zoned if i'm dating her? And I know what you if I fuck a girl on the first opportunity then I lose interest because that just shows that they have no respect for them self.

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I have to disagree with the last part of your post... It took me 2 attempts to finally F-Close the girl I am dating and you know what, even if I had gotten her the first time I would still give her more value than some of the bitches that took me 3 months to fuck but still were as skanky as a whore.

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So my girl friend called me before I had to go to work and she said

"you wanna hangout before you have to go to work?"

me: "ya"

So she came over. We laid in my bed, then I start rubbing her back then gave her a massage to build sexual tension. Then I stopped giving her a massage then just continuned to lay next to her and just rub her then I worked my way down. I started fingering her again. Then I whispered in her ear. "wanna have sex" she said "No". So after I made her cum. We both left my house because I had to go to work.

Later that day when I got off she called me and said.
"sorry for that awkward no today, I wanna have sex with you just not right now. I wanna take it slow."

I told her that I respect that and no rush.

Any help?

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Just don't rush it, go with the flow, try again next time