In recent interactions I noticed that I am sometimes getting stuck at the stage where the girl shows interest in me.

It goes something like this:

# [Girl might already be kind of attracted to me; optional :)]
# We talk and build some connection/comfort
# She starts to be touchy, leans onto me when "appropriate"
# I show any sort of interest (e.g. suggesting something to do together)
# Her BT seems to zero, touching stops, communication is reduced, I go home :D


So now, I wonder what to do. Both variants I can think of fail:
* Suggesting a meet, as pointed out, results in lost attraction. *Bad.*
* If I skip suggesting a meet, there likely will be none. *Bad.*

*Any other idea on how to proceed and progress?*


There's also a similar variation where the girl (!) suggests to go out together, but omits the call she initially had agreed to give me.
Happened two times recently. I considered calling, but I value reliable behaviour and thus found it simply stupid to "be nice and give them a hand" by calling myself.

The girls in question loose some of my respect for breaking an agreement. However, leaving it at that results in less girls for me, as this behaviour is rather the rule than the exemption.

I wonder how to cope with it. Acting as if I had forgotten the appointment too is just as unrealistic and sleazy.

Listen,you should understand that even if their BT is down(or seems like it..)it dosen't matter since you've got a day2.

Also,if she's kind of DTF-ish then don't do day2..just escelate on her like a madman..

Anything else?

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Took me a minute to figure out how you understood my text:

The last part (about her dropping BT) happens in the very moment I suggest a day 2 or bounce - effectively killing it altogether.

Give me an exemple of the convo bro'.

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