I'm not unattractive by any means. But I'm not HOT, which is what I want over good looking. I have pale skin, I have a really skinny physique not to mention an arched forward upper back due to a slight scoliosis. I have a receding hairline, thinning. One eye is smaller than the other due to a scar from stitches when I was small. I also don't have nice clothes, no button down shirts, just a coupld of polos that are more casual looking, two pairs of Arizona jeans, one hat and thats basically it. It appears I don't have enough clothes to impress and I don't have a full head of hair or that attractive hairline. Its funny I look young but my hair isnt. I just hate this overall and feel I'm not suitable for game because I have too many mental blocks going on.

Hey, I hate to ruin your little pitty party, but I'm going to interject with some USEFUL information. Some shit you can't change. You can't make your hair grow back and you can't straighten your spine. But you CAN buy some decent clothes. You can wear a cool looking hat or shave your head bald and just rock the bald look. You can start working out to bulk up. You can eat more. It won't be easy, and doing that stuff isn't going to make you look like a super model. But it's going to IMPROVE what you have going, and that's the best you can do at this point. It's amazing how people will sit there and gripe and complain about "woe is me", and identify EVERYTHING wrong with themselves, but then take absolutely no action to change anything. And I don't mean that as an insult, I've done it too. Many people do that. But it won't help matters.

WRITE down what is wrong with you. Make a list. Then make a corresponding list of tangible things and actions you can do to make improvements. Then do them. I assure you, any alternative to that, or taking no action at all, will certainly not get you any closer to acheiving what you want. What's even more unattractive than all those things wrong with you is a MAN who throws himself pity parties.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

Nobodys perfect. Some are more than others. Accept it! But flaws allow you to be interesting, you just have to accept them and love you for who you are.
There's no point in thinking about what you could improve unless you are ready to actually do something about it!
Puaninja showed you already a lot of things you can improve, it's totally up to you now!
Nobody's is going to love you, unless you do it yourselfs!

Yeah like puaninja says, some things you're stuck with. get over them. But what you need to do is be the best you can be. So you've got thinning and receding hair? Well you can sit there wishing you had a full, thick head of hair, or you can go and ask a stylist to give you a cut and some product that works it well (maybe buzz cut it, or maybe ask them to leave certain sections longer and add specific product to create the appearance of more volume). Go and buy nicer clothes. Not everyone needs to be big and muscular to pull women. Work with what you've got. If you're naturally skinny, then yeah eat more and try to bulk up a little bit so that you don't look deathly-skinny, but buy clothes that work with a skinnier frame, that sort of thing.

A lot of hot women would be average at best looking if they didn't know how to accentuate their good points and hide their bad points. You just have to figure out how to make yourself look as good as you can make yourself look.

First of all your thinking should be changed. Every person has his/her unique identity. Do something that will make you feel proud. Don't go on looks. They are nothing if we are good at other things in life. Be positive and start working today.

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Paulie Gatto