We were playing in a bed and then boom! HB says we are not having sex! I was like ok and continued. Then after 10 NO's decided to give up. Still got a blowjob so I am pleased but I wanted to fuck her so much. She is fit...

I asked her what's the problem and she told me that she want to lose her virginity with a loving boyfriend and kept asking me what do I think about her bla bla bla. I told her that I am not looking for relationship but that i like her bla bla bla.

At the end she got very sad and told me that we shouldn't do this anymore and that she needs to think about it.

Any thoughts what should I do? Or it would be best to just walk away?

I believer honesty is very important in pick up... and this girl seems like she's looking for a LTR... so unless you're down for that I would say move on.

Maybe I should had back off. But she kept grinding her pussy in to my cock so I was just suggesting to put it inside lol.

Anyway I was honest with her that I don't want exclusive relationship. But she called me today anyway...maybe I should suggest her open relationship?

Props on considering the open relationship option. Tony has it, you can make this work for you. But you're def dealing with someone who is very emotional.

This can be awesome for you if you're honest about it.

We met couple of times again...got the bj but she didn't wanted to fuck again.

After that she got emotional again and wanted some validation. We talked about open relationship but she didn't wanted it. Started crying and asked me why I don't want closed one so I was honest and told her that I like her a lot but I want to meet other girls as well. So she said we shouldn't do this anymore. I agreed. Hmm everything went almost the same as last time but this time it was more dramatic so she probably won't call me back this time.

It is a shame, I really liked her. Well at least I won't need to worry about the karma I guess....

not worth it man. It takes time to lose a girls V-Card and once you do lose there V-Card they get attached to you. You don't want that to happen.

MOVE ON

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Yep, i dont like taking virginities either.

You either have to care about them to some degree or be able to flat out use them and then dump them with no remorse. Neither is really attractive to me.

Not to mention i had a really bad experience. I was with this really horny girl who didnt want to lose her virginity, but wanted the feeling of dick on her pussy so bad. She was wearing fucking jeans. She kept trying to grind my dick unto her jeans. It was retarded. And i rode with it which was more retarded. My dick had rug burn after that shit.

It will be a loooong and painful journey to her pussy only to have bad sex in the end.

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LMAO that's what happened to me, she kept asking me to grind my dick on her pussy. It was so funny. Except I removed all her clothes. She gave me head after so I was happy.

Anyway she didn't call anymore so it is over. Though that shitty feeling comes from somewhere and I can't control it.

Seeing another girl soon so hopefully she won't be a fucking virgin and will want it inside lmao.

She called again...says we should see each other but don't have "sex".

Not sure if it is possible (and worth it) to game her to have open relationship or just say to fuck off....

What you guys suggest?

Don't do it bro. You know that.

Don't do it. She obviously wants something serious and you don't. You got to cut her loose and move on.

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Don't do it man - because whatever she says, you know what she really wants. You are being honest and she is not if she says you two should hang out but not have sex. I would put money on it that she will essentially try to girl-game you into a relationship. She will "hope you see the light" and want to get serious with her. Therefore to see her again is going to lead to bad places for you both.

Sex with virgins is seriously overated anyway. Awkward, lacking passion, and she is always too in her head during and after, no matter how good you are in bed.

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Dude i had the same thing happen to me a couple months ago. She said she wanted to have sex but only if I'd comitt to her. So I was honest with her. I told her I couldnt do that because everytime ive been in a comitted relationship its ended terribly and I didnt want to do that to her. I still liked her but I wanted my freedom and I wanted her to have her freedom too. Turns out it was just a shit test from her. Now we're good friends with the occasional benefits lol

I say fuck it not literally but go for it. Sounds like a wild adventure. Tease her play with her make her enjoy your company. She is just slow to gain your trust. That's all, she is trying to validate her own thoughts on virginity & love. Shes just at a different level. Also when you're messing around with her you shoot first and say "you know what I don't really want to fuck you." This will build doubt and she will think that she is not so speciall, that something must be wrong. She will then try to validate herself to you.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

Thanks for advices guys!

She came over recentlly again. Didn't had sex but did that retarded thing again. Thank god no emotional talk this time.

Now I'm wondering maybe I should stop pleasing her like that since she comes from it so she doesn't feel any need of having proper sex?